There are stuff you can do to earn extra money and have a lot of accomplishments to look back to and fall back on when you get older, the tricks I can share with you are pretty simple and are related to the teachings of "The Secret":
- Know what you want. What are your passions? What is it that you love doing that doesn't require much effort on your part? If you were to die next year, what is it that you would be doing now to make sure that you don't regret anything?
- Ask for what you want. Write about it. Talk about it. If you're not comfortable doing that, think about it and feel good that you are already getting it in your life now.
- Claim that whatever you ask for is already with you. So start taking steps no matter how small. You want to have your own business? Start inquiring about how to have one. You want to have a new car or house, go window shopping! Do anything that can bring you similar good feelings like you actually already own them.
- Once you do feel all this goodness inside of you, you will become a magnet and you will start attracting all good things in your life... things and people that you only dreamed of having.
As for me, the moment I resigned from my boring government work and claimed that all good things are coming my way (even if they're not yet there), I noticed that I had more energy to do things I like. For instance, I had more energy to write, blog and spend time on the computer for hours on end. Because of this, I came across online jobs and opportunities and I just said yes to all of them. Travel opportunities came and I said yes to all of them too. In my travels (which came for free by the way), I met a lot of interesting people with the same charisma.
They eventually became my friends and acquaintances which brought me more great things. My life then just became a series of miracles...the amount of good things coming to my life just snowballed and all I really had to do was to feel good. That's the only requirement actually...That's the secret --- to always feel good. Because like I said, when you feel good, good things happen. Same way when you wake up in the morning and you start feeling bad, the day snowballs into a series of bad events and you say you're having a bad day. It's the same thing with having a good day!
At first it will be hard. It's like having a ping pong match in your brain saying that this can't be true. I will never get lucky, blah blah blah... I'm such a moron for believing all this... etc..
But once you start disciplining yourself to feeling good and claiming that all your dreams are coming true, then everything around you will start beating in the same rhythm. It's like what they say in the in the great books... When you're ready, the whole universe will conspire for you to get what you want.
As for things, people, and events that make you feel bad, ignore them! Don't give them as much importance as you did before when you tell about them to your friends, write bout them in your journal, or simply mull over them. Act as if these bad things are not even there.
Those that make you feel good, magnify them!
That's why it is important to forgive all those people you have bad feelings with. Because in the end, it's not them you are hurting. IT IS YOU.... your inner aura...your inner magnet. Just let go of the negative stuff, wish them well and move on with your life. When you do, you will start experiencing bliss like you never did before. And you will start attracting all great things you deserve.