I guess we have at one time or another wished to be more likable, to make more friends, get more people to love us and even influence more people around us.
The truth is that if we don't know how to make ourselves irresistible we will be stuck in the dream lane.
Start With Yourself
The first place to start this work of making ourselves irresistible is with us, ourselves. Stating the obvious I guess.
What do we do to ourselves to become irresistible? Simple.
Think less of yourself and focus more on others.
For instants when you are going to a place were you will meet friends or even new people don't go there and just wait for others to come to you rather forget yourself for the moment and become genuinely interested in them.
Walk up to friends first, say hi, and find out how they are and how they are doing.
WARNING
DO NOT do this with the intension of getting them to like you or they will smell your insincerity and run from you, do it because you really care about them and sincerely want their good.
When you meet people walk up and introduce yourself, ask them about themselves and just be a good listener.
The Bottom Line
The bottom line here is to start caring about others sincerely, wishing them good, finding out how they are, offer a helping hand, a listening ear and whatever they may require at that point.
When you start and continue to do this you will see others finding you irresistible and you will begin to have great influence in their lives just as you dreamed.
To find yourself, you have to loose yourself first.
It does not sound very appealing but I tell you it works. Try it and you will confirm my claim.
Go make yourself irresistible it is fun.
