“For the confused people and don't know what to do, for the hopeless people that seek inspiration.”
Love
Why should you think of it so much anyway? If it doesn't work, then let go. Don't make it too hard for yourself. But if you seek for it, oh man, don't you realize the happiness of being single? Don't ever try look for it! It will come into your life, I mean into your heart.
Love is not a feeling, it is a will…
For the Singles
- Am I happy alone?
- Am I busy so much that I haven't got chance form it?
- Why am I still single?
- Do I look like an ugly duck?
- Do I have a body odor?
- Do I do my daily hygiene?
- Do I brush my teeth regularly?
- Is my head proportional to my body?
- Am I too thin or too thick? (I mean fat)
- Am I able to support a relationship if ever?
- Am I breadwinner?
- Are there people depending on me?
- Is love the answer for all my questions?
For the Couples
- Do I really love him/her?
- Do I feel jealous most of the time?
- Do we face problems the way it must be?
- Can we talk issues in a good manner?
- How often do we fight?
- Am I happy whenever I'm with him/her?
- Does he/she respect my weaknesses and negative points?
- Do I feel very comfortable with him/her?
- Do I feel strong with him/ her?
- Whenever he/she is gone, am I ok?
- Do I trust him with all of my heart?
- Does he/she kiss me when there's a chance?
- Does he/she willing to fight for our relationship until the end?
Truth
- Why seek for it?
- Is it the answer all my questions?
- When I find it, will it give a light?
- Who are involved?
- What are the advantages and disadvantages of gaining it?
- Is it for the good of the few or of the majority?
Friendship
- How often do I need them?
- Do I enjoy time with them?
- Are they trustworthy?
- Do they take advantage on me?
- Do they use me?
- Are they willing to lie for me if ever? (white lies)
- Do they comfort me in times I'm down?
- Do they bring out the best in me?
- Do they seek the deeper side of me?
- Are they going to stand for our friendship no matter what?
- Do they treat me right?
- Do they respect me and my family?
- Are they good?
- Don't they have bad influences?
- In times I don't know what to do, are they there for me?
- Do they treat our friendship a treasure?
Now, ask yourself, am I reading right? Sometimes we must not for ask the answer, but we must ask for the question. And we must not always ask the others for the answers, but let us ask ourselves first.
You know yourself more than the others.
Just think that it is a question from a love one, what will be your answer? What are you going to say to him/her?
What you can do best is not to advice, but to let him/her do the thing he/she thinks is right. No blame. No guilt. No hard feelings. Be true. Think of the best.
