There are many lessons to learn from: Lying
Don’t be a big fat liar. One lie, here comes another lie. Two lies, you will lie for a lifetime. Lying takes a big effort and more dramatic introduction to make someone to believe you. If you’re not a good liar, then don’t try it. Someone can read your actions and your eyes, so don’t try it. Don’t sweat yourself, just for the sake of lying. There’s no such thing such as white lie and black lie, if it is a lie, it’s a lie, no matter how you explain the word. If others will know that you’re lying, the next word that comes in your mouth, even if it is the truth; others won’t believe you anymore. That’s the consequences of lying. Covering up the whole truth might be a bad thing to start. Lying might be the next big thing.
Walking
Don't walk barefoot. I always walk without slippers especially at home. My father always scold me about my bad behavior and one day when a sharp objects penetrated deep within my heels, I promised myself to wear something on my feet.
Sweets
Sweet dreams are made of chocolates, candies and ice creams. If there’s one avid fan of chocolates, may it be dark or milk chocolates, count me in. That’s my weakness, however, you need to learn that eating much of chocolates and candies are too bad for your health. If you’ll not develop toothache, chances of getting diabetes is too high. Even if your brain needs sugar to function, you need to know that too much can spoil everything. If you become addicted to it, you become more fat and out of form. Yes, I eat chocolates but I’m glad I’m not fat.
Teachers
You have to listened when she talk, chances are she's going to announced and mentioned your name as "the most talkative child on earth". Back during my college days, Effective Speech subject, my seat-mate asked me something about how to pronounce the words, but sad to say before I knew it, my professor mentioned my name all over and over again in front of my 56 colleagues. Too bad, one of my embarrassing moment.
Men
They will make it sure that they can get something from you. Don't be so naive, be wise. Otherwise, you're one of their pawn and one of their pleasure collection. You need to be a nerd, sometimes(huh?). You don't have to give your whole trust to them, sometimes men aren't trustworthy, they just used and take advantage of you. But, who can predict the ways of our heart? Not me, not you. If you will like one particular man in your life, you might not listen to this article.
However, there might be a tendency that you get hook, even if you don’t like to do it anymore. The best way to deal with it? Don’t start the fire, chances are they will put more logs to create more fire. But, who cares if you’ll like that person anyway? Be cautious though, this is the main point of everything. Cautious in the terms of your heart, don’t invest your heart into something in which, it can hurt you at the end.
Mistakes
You have to learn from your own mistakes. Don’t be so stubborn, learn from your previous incidents and may your mistakes be your lessons in continuing your life. If you commit the same mistakes again and again, you’re stupid enough to understand what's going on. There’s a wisdom behind your mistakes. One is enough, two is too much and if it happened thrice in your life, well, what can I say? You’re already stupid, so you make yourself more stupid than ever. Mistakes can be one of the ways to modify your own behaviour, but if you didn’t learn from it, chances are your life becomes more complicated to begin with.
Think Before You Talk
Don't bug in when you don't know the topic. It’s your own shame if you keep on talking without even knowing, do the wise ways. Listen, think and then talk. Like, if the topic is all about, “Ways to become happy”, don’t talk about the saddest part of your life. You’ll only spoil everyone’s happiness and you’re spoiling your own mood as well. Try to fit in. Don’t be an outsider. Listening is an art, you need to develop it before someone will say, “Shame on you”.
Dates
If you noticed some unusual thing in your first date, don't agree if he insist for a second date, you may experience more disaster at the end. You have to know the lessons from your previous dates and your former date before you will have the next date. Don't repeat again the same mistakes or same situation in your next date.
Friendship
Being friendly is nice but too much of being friendly is not good. Other people will used you and take advantage of you. You were not born yesterday, were you? So, you already know that, “Best-friends, best enemies”, right? I’m not saying that every best-friends are the same, what I’m saying is that, you have to be careful where to give your trust, so that in the end you’re not blaming yourself and anyone about the fall of the friendship. Trust is good and it can only be given once, once it’s broken, like a crystal glass, it can never be mended. Only the pieces will remain.
Break up
I’m sure, it hurts. No one can prevent it, it will happen. You may like it or not. If you’re one of the person in this planet who become so immune about the break up, I applaud you. Maybe, you’ve been a lot of breaking up, that’s why you’re immune to it. But, the lesson to learn from breaking up is that, the pain and the hurts. That’s why, if you don’t like the hurt and the pain, be careful next time. But, who can predict the event of your own love story in the future? Not you, not me. So, the best thing that you can do, learn to love again.
Well, don’t listen to me anyway. My life is more complicated than being more aware of what I write. Writing is more easier than doing what I stated above. You may gain some insights of what I mentioned in this article. In some point, it will help you to be aware that it’s happening in your life. Try to fix your life, if it isn’t fix yet. As what I said, don’t listen to me, because there are still areas in my life that need to be fix.
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