During the moments when I get insecure about my relationship or when I am being simply bratty (i.e. all the time), I just stop and remind myself of what friends had told me during our hobnobs and venting-times. I guess I could call them words of wisdom. I just recite them to my self like a mantra to keep me from being sad, mad, and bad. And since it does help, I guess some other girls out there can use them, viz:
- Calling you is not your boyfriend's obligation. It must be his happy, fulfilling and willing act. If he calls, make the conversation worth the bill. If he does not, that's his problem, not yours.
- You are his girlfriend. You are not his mom, so don't monitor him. Not his wife, so don't nag him. Not his boss, so don't scold him. Not his slave, so don't make him your world. Not his master, so don't dictate on him.
- When he doesn't love you the way you want him to, it doesn't mean he doesn't love you the best he can. So chill and learn to appreciate.
- Get busy, be productive. Believe me, it's far better than boyfriend-stalking.
- Don't expect more than what he is prepared to give.
- Know what real love is and don't settle for anything less. If it doesn't fit, let it go.
- Know what you want, and what you can and are willing to give.
- Nobody is perfect, perfect example is yourself.
Do they make sense? Well, they make me sane.
