If you have ever been in a relationship you know that if someone else comes into the picture jealousy begins to generate. Jealousy will break up even the best of relationships because once it is there it will not just disappear. Love is somthing that drives people crazy because after you love someone, 95% of the time you love them still even after you break up. It eats you up because you can't stand the fact that they are with someone else. Here is why and how jealousy breaks up relationships.........
- It raises suspicion
- It causes battle for control
- It causes an increase in fighting
- It makes you think the other person is cheating on you
- It generates apathy
- It causes both people to put up their guards
- It causes vengeful feelings
- It demolishes trust and love
You see when you love someone in my eyes you never ever stop loving them because you get used to having that person around and you are lost without them. You want them back but refuse to wake up and realize that you can't do anything about it. Love is somthing that can make or break a relationship but what it does can be changed. You know we need to make changes but not because we want to keep somebody,it should be because we love them. 99% of the time we pick people because of how they look but to me it should be about the content of a persons heart. I believe that this is why most relationships do not work out. It shouldn't matter if this person makes us look good or not but if we truly love them or not. I think that the love of the person is more important then how the person looks because if you don't love the person for who they are then you truly don't love them.All I am saying is go for someone who you love as a person not just for their looks.We need love but not for the wrong reasons like.....
- Money
- looks
- status
- sex
- or pity
- or just to make someone else jealous
It is about who the person is on the inside not who they are on the inside. I just thought I would offer advice from my experiences. If you go on the wrong reasons the relationship will never last long. Just heed my words. It shouldn't matter where this person has been but where they are going and what they are accomplishing in their life.
