Human behaviors vary time to time and they do behave different in different situations and with different frames of minds.
- As when some one is angry he can't behave same when he is normal
- The most important thing is self control
Human can perform the fullest of their potential when they are under pressure.
- One can always use tress for success
- Stress or pressure can be a big motivator
- Having a positive attitude towards life helps a lot
- One should never go against Nature
- One should try to do every thing his best and leave the rest on Nature and let Nature play its role
No body on earth is perfect so, we are.
Though normally most of us try to be better human beings with a positive attitude towards life but we all should take feed back off and on from people related to us to pin point our weaknesses so we can realized them and try to change ourselves as “ There is always a room for improvement”
But most of us don't like to listen the bitter truth about ourselves for instance; many of us hesitate to accept our mistakes.
It requires great strength to say out one's weaknesses!
General Overview:
As we all learn from our mistakes but the best way is to learn by being observant and avoid making mistakes. Though we all try our best but off course human have minds which are at times full of egos which discourage us to admit.
In this life we all come across to various kinds of people and we do learn from them a lot but most of all people who are really close to us:
- Our parents
- Our teachers
- Our life partners
- Our friends ( keeping in mind difference between an acquaintance and a friend)
They are the people we represent when we move in our social circle. As we are known that we are related to them as:
- A son
- A daughter
- A student
- A wife
- A husband
- A friend
How can we improve ourselves?
Some times though it is difficult for all of us to admit our mistakes but if we take the feed back purposely from people who are really close to us then it could be really helpful to change ourselves towards become a better human.
How can we change certain weaknesses?
Once we have identified that what are our certain weaknesses so just by realizing that what are our certain weaknesses? Means we are admitting our mistakes now onwards so, It means half of the problem is gone.
How can we eliminate our certain weaknesses?
All we need to do is just promise ourselves that if we make a mistake we should accept as for instance before we use to hide that we got the car scratched and now as we have identified onward that we will accept our mistakes without fearing what other people say and doubt about our driving skills as people who drive even since more then twenty years they can make a mistake too so, we can.
Conclusion:
- Once you realized from your heart about your certain weaknesses and apply your mind to eliminate them it is not that difficult
- All you need to make is a commitment within you and yourself no body else
- Even if we hit the parked car and nobody was watching, we are wrong because Allah watches everything as Quran says in Surae -Tag Bin :
- Meaning “ And whatever you do Allah is watching you”
