Many of us moved to the city for the job opportunities and the anonymity that it provides. We find out to late that it can also lead to isolation and loneliness. The job market can be cutthroat and many people never meet any of the people who live close to them. Small towns provide a wonderful support network and foster wonderful community ties, but the small towns also tend to have less economic or job opportunity than cities. The great news is that with a little bit of effort you can have the best of both worlds.
Get to know your neighbors. The people who live and work around you can be the best resource for information and recreation. Take advantage of their experience and expertise. We have asked many a plumbing or gardening question without having to pay for the service. Your friends and neighbors can also give you recommendations for reliable daycare providers or a great running trail close by. Shared knowledge is one of our most beneficial commodities that people take advantage of in a small town. Share services if at all possible in order to cut down on costs. If the budget does not have room to hire a babysitter, trade date nights with other families that you trust. If you have landscaping or home improvement projects don't turn away curious neighbors just put them to work. Be prepared to return the favor when your neighbor needs help. Most of all have fun. Getting to know your neighbors can establish friendships that will last a lifetime.
Find a job you love and get involved. If work is your passion then get to know your co-workers. You do not have to be best friends with your co-workers outside of work, but you can enjoy your work relationship. Co-workers will share professional experiences as well as help you develop a career path. Your job can also foster ties to the community. Most companies encourage volunteering in your community. This can be a great way to meet and socialize with other professionals in your area while supporting worthwhile causes. There are a multitude of volunteer causes in most communities so you may pick the ones that are closest to your values. Networking and beefing up your resume with community minded activities are very positive ways to push your career in the right direction.
Establishing a balance in your life can be difficult. Enjoy the people around you and turn everyday life into beneficial and productive relationships.
