So, what do the above title suggests? Is it suggestive enough? But this is quite a serious issue for all to read and heed; well for women at least. What do you mean caught in the act?? There are tons and numerous of "videos" and "camera-shots" caught on cameras either done willingly or non-willingly by girlfriends, mistresses, wives etc. And I mean it while they are "doing it", specifically. You name it, women are victims in these kinds of acts. Being a man, I really find it sacriligeous for someone of my own species to go spreading these videos, in the process of making money etc, or just out of spite in order to fulfill revengeful needs. Or worst, to boast to other guy friends for that matter. I really detest this act and you will never see me doing this to another innocent woman. Okay, I correct that, even if that woman is a wild one, I WOULD NEVER do that to her. No videos strictly.
Therefore, here are some tips for women not to get caught in the act. Okay, I don't really encourage pre-marital sex, erm, to be honest, let's be personal, I don't encourage it AT ALL. But if you must, do it at your own discretion and risk, but here is a tip. Please, all women out there, I really wouldn't want my own species to be taking advantage of this situation. Therefore, you need to be extra careful, ladies, and I really mean it. Please decline strongly for guys to take videos of you and him "doing the act". As an adult, you have the right to accept and reject, but think of all the consequences in the end. Do not let someone coax you into something that makes you say yes to his ideas in the end. Get what I mean?
The next tip would be to not encourage talks on this at all. And I really mean AT ALL TIMES. For instance, if a guy keeps on getting persisting on finding out your sexual flavors like would you ever allow your boyfriend to tape you and stuff like that, start to put on your alarm and radar. Be on the alert, be cautious but not extremely cautious. Do not let your guard down is the exact word here. Next tip is to respect yourself. If you have a high degree of self-righteousness and also self-regard, you will not fall into the trap and be led into telling that you are willing to do that deed with your long-time partner or husband even. Let your fantasies and your secrets be yours exclusively. You never know what some guys have lurking in their evil minds.
Next off, make sure that should you decide to do "the act" and take the sole responsibility to do it despite knowing in your gut feeling that you are not really into it, be more alert and wise. How to, you might ask. That brings us to location. If you really want to commit to "the act", make sure that he does not bring any secret video-camera or something and you decide the location whereby you know that it's going to be safe and away from any recording gadgets. Make sure he comes clean and without any of it as well. Should you go as far as agreeing to be video-taped, then I can't say much. Perhaps you might want to put the condition that you should keep the original video and no copies to be made, and if he wants to download it to his cellphone or something, then decline strictly and say that the deal is off. Meaning to say? He can only view it when he's with you, and the camera or video only belongs to you and you are the only sole owner to it. In this way, I can bet you that guys with evil intentions towards you will definitely find it a turn-off and will not agree to it. Don't be surprised if he says, "I think I don't want us being recorded after all". And better still, he might postpone into "doing it" with you. And the postponing might be forever, ha!
Read on these tips and I hope that all ladies out there will be extra careful. It really saddens me deeply whenever a colleague of mine or a friend of mine (ladies of course) cry a bucketful of water for the "lost video" and feel "ashamed" at losing their secrecy and privacy. I am a guy that protects my privacy well and I would understand should a lady loses it. So, follow on these tips and hope that you will be safe whenever and wherever.
