School is a whole other story! Now we go from lazy and/or “abused childhood parents” to “frightened, abused childhood and/or lazy” teachers who are not much more than a fancy over paid babysitter because all respect, responsibility, and teaching abilities have been stripped from them by unreasonable rules and laws that make actual teaching what the children should be learning nearly impossible but allowing for children to talk back, threaten, interrupt, disrupt, abuse and /or destroy anything and anyone around them. Teachers are little more than “snitches” on families based on a Childs tales told whether true or not. No funding is granted any school district to teach children to become decent and respectable adults, husbands/wives, or parents in today’s society, but there are plenty of government covered agencies with lots of money and high powered backing more than ready to imprison people in an already over crowded facility, destroy existing families based on some outsiders point of view of reality, place people in a system that exists solely for the purpose of obtaining money from tax payers to pay others to do the same job most people already do themselves, but would make their life just as easy if they received that kind of money from their jobs that is paid to many of these agencies, for actually not doing what they are getting the money for. The problem is no one is willing to seek the actual truth and when some one does a warning is sent out and a cover up put into affect. I’ve seen tax payer’s money in action and I cry. The deceit, lies and cover ups aided by the so called “News Medias” larger than life and blown out of proportion lies against the public not willing to rock the boat and risk losing their licenses, jobs, or perhaps afraid of government officials retaliation against them or their loved ones for actually reporting the real truth for a change.
Most all of today’s problems revolve around words! Teachers can’t do their job because of retribution against them; workers lose their jobs, go to jail, etc for making an innocent observation or comment about another worker of the opposite sex; a compliment is taken as some kind of dirty thing and reported as a sexual harassment! Children today will say and do all kinds of things they shouldn’t and turn to you and say “you can’t touch me it’s illegal,” So who runs this world today? This coming from a ten year olds mouth makes me sick! Adults’ allowing such atrocity is even worse. Yet one individual can not change the situation! It will take society as a whole to do that just as it took our parents and grandparents’ laid back drug and alcohol induced stupor and I don’t give a damn attitude to cause it all.
How do we combat these things? First off women get your minds out of the gutter! You are not the center of every ones world. Learn to accept a compliment without “reading” more into it than there is. Men be more attentive to your wives, they are the ones you married for better or worse. Women you take better care of and be responsible for your girls like the American Indians did. Men you be responsible for your boys like the American Indians were. Both adults learn respect and teach it to your children! Open communication between husband and wife is a must! You must give and take on both ends to make a family work. Don’t marry based on sexual desire it won’t last! Go back to the basics. Don’t marry for money or looks either it won’t last! It’s not what a person looks like on the out side that makes a person worth living with, it’s what is inside that makes a person sweet, kind, affectionate, etc. I’ve seem some beautiful women and really handsome men that were horrible people because they were good looking and knew it. They demanded constant attention from everyone around them, yet nothing would really make them happy. They are the ones that mistake sex for love and when the sex appeal is gone they are too. Commitment is sorely lacking in our world today because no one keeps their word, oath or agreements. The world is quick to tell people to get a divorce but not come up with ways to help people stay together. A woman is a man’s helper not a man themselves! A man is suppose to respect women not treat them with contempt. Children are supposed to be taught propriety not aloud to run the show.
Going back to the basics is not going backwards folks; it is reestablishing boundaries that should always be in place to begin with. Most people don’t know who they themselves are much less what they want and that is the saddest part of all. How can you teach others what you don’t know yourself? Answer these questions on a piece of paper, who are you? How do you want others to perceive (see) you? What changes in your life can you make to make that happen to yourself without involving other people? Start working on it and do it one at a time. Don’t expect it to happen overnight but don’t give up either. Remember there will always be people around that out of jealousy or spite will cut you verbally down to the ground and make you want to stop trying. Don’t hang with them! If the people around you can’t be encouraging and uplifting to you as you work on your changes than you don’t need them around you anyway.
One of the first things everyone needs to work on is this annoying bad habit of taking all things being said and twisting it into something ugly, dirty and distasteful! Not everyone has an evil heart and mind to go with it. Not all people are today’s attorneys, CPS workers, Detectives or Foster Care people either. So we shouldn’t act like them who build their lives around suspicions of dirt and filth. If you are married to one such as that I really feel for you but you don’t have to be like them even if married to one. The choice is yours not theirs to make as to how you view life and other people. There is still such a thing as innocence of the heart and mind in this world and many things said and or done is many times with the best of intentions yet made dirty by those who can not get out of the gutter themselves. I do not pity them because they chose that life. I do however pity anyone having to live with them or around them. A life where there is no goodness or innocence is no life at all.
