The women in my family lied to get out of going to school, lied to get out of the house and go on a drinking spree, lied about their age to get into bars and drink, lied about their age to have sex with older men to the point of carrying a fake identification card on them, lied about being raped by the fathers of their children to keep the fathers parents from taking the children, lied about her unwanted step father molesting her in hopes of getting rid of the man in favor of another one with more money, One of them, my mother omitted the fact that she took strange things to force abortion of her first born but only succeeded in becoming ill, attempted to kill the same child at birth along with putting a scalpel to the doctors throat, then unsuccessfully attempted to adopt the child out. All of these things took place before they were the age of eighteen years old.
The most controversial of them all is whether a child will lie about an older child or an adult being sexual with them, and I submit to you that the answer in many cases is yes! In some cases a child or children are coaxed into the lie by an adult who wants to see the other older child or adult pay dearly for some wrong they have done to the coaxing adult. In some cases children got together and decided to get rid of a teacher by telling the lie that the teacher had molested or touched them in private places on their bodies causing the teacher’s in question to lose their jobs, their credentials they worked for years to obtain and their wife/husband and children. Children get together and talk about people they don’t like and contrive ways of getting these unwanted people out of their lives, sometimes permanently. Sex abuse and molestations work best because it is a hideous act and an act against God. Oh don’t get me wrong! There are some really sick people out there! But not as many child sex abusers as there appear to be. Not everyone condemned or that have pled guilty of a sex crime against a child are actually guilty of the crime. You see the authorities in charge of child sex crimes run under the assumption that “Children don’t lie about those thing.” Therefore anyone accused of the crime is guilty of the crime. The same authorities, attorneys, and judges use what they call “a play on words” to force the plea or guilty verdict in both criminal and juvenile courts at least in the state of California.
In any case Whaa! These are all immoral practices. These are people out to hurt others and don’t care until it happens to them some day. The authorities maintain the stance that it did happen regardless of what the child or children say later and blame the belated truth on “they (children) feel sorry for the person and change their story.” Or “they (children) found some kind of spiritual misguided thing and changed their story.” Most people don’t realize just how these authoritative people coax the children in what to say for the court to gain that guilty verdict in order for the authorities to obtain their bonuses and look good in their perspective fields of work. Note: Every quote in the last two paragraphs I have used came directly from a personal conversation with an attorney, or a Child Protective Service Worker. All of whom shall remain nameless.
Lets face it people, when an individual can order a cup of coffee at a drive through window of a fast food establishment where only hot coffee is served spill it on themselves while driving, sue the fast food chain and win their case, or go into a major department store that is known, for years, for being open twenty four hours, seven days a week, and known that all stocking is done between the hours of midnight and six o’clock in the mornings, yet between those stocking hours trip over a box and sue the department store chain and win causing them to close their doors to the public during stocking hours, we live in a Whaa Syndrome Society where people do not accept responsibility for their own poor decisions and/or judgment calls. This is just two cases out of hundreds of cases.
Stop being the “Cry Baby” society and start taking more responsibility for your own decisions, actions and judgments! Stop placing blame everywhere else because you don’t want to look bad to others around you, because I’ve got news for you, you don’t look bad, you look absolutely ridiculous!