Here are some things that I have learnt over the years of life. Everybody wants people to be drawn to them. But how? The answerer is charisma.
- Concern
- Help
- Action
- Results
- Influence
- Sensitivity
- Motivation
- Affirmation
Concern: The Ability To Show You Care
- Let them feel they are important
- If you want people to comeback it's in the greetings and goodbyes
- Don't try to sell others on you, try to sell them on themselves and it makes them feel good around you
- When you spend time with the hurt you will feel their needs
Help: The Ability To Reach Out
- All of Gods gifts are to help others not yourself
- Solve problems and people will follow you
- Relate to them because people don't care how much you know until they know how much you care
Action: The Ability To Make Things Happen
- Develop your creativity and confidence
- Use humor to drive home a point
Results: The Ability To Produce
- People like being around winners
- Hope that others win too
- Give your strength to those in need
Influence: The Ability To Lead
Sensitivity: The Ability To Feel And Respond
- To win people you need to tell them what they want to hear
Motivation: The Ability To Give Hope
- The secret of motivation is giving hope
Affirmation: The Ability To Build Up
- Affirm people of their accomplishments
- We become what the most important people in our life think we will become
Follow those simple things and people will be so attracted to you its unbelievable.
