How many women have been told by their man that, "you look good without all that make-up." How many women believe this and stop wearing it? So you stop wearing make up and slowly but surely you start getting more comfortable. So comfortable that you start losing a little more confidence in yourself, maybe even get a little slouchy. Then you get to were you have let yourself go. Now your man can relax, because they do not have to worry about some man coming and snatching you away from them.
Your man liked you slimmer and with makeup. Thats why he even wanted to date you to begin with. Whats keeping him attracted to you now? I believe eventually his eye will be caught by someone who looks nice. If you let yourself go, they might let you go as well. Keep yourself up and they will feel the need to keep up as well. Taking care of yourself should always come first. If your happy and you look and feel good people want to be around you. If you are depressed and you look and feel that way, who wants to be around that? Self-esteem should be built not broke down, passed on not passed aside. Ladies pamper yourself, you decide what you deserve.
