Spend time with yourself. Protect yourself from unhealthy and unproductive relationships or situations, you are never alone. If you first love yourself then love from others will flow into your life.
Do not wait for man to affirm you. Write affirmations and repeat them daily. As you prepare for each day look into the mirror and affirm:
I am beautiful.
I am fabulous.
I approve of me.
I am important.
I am successful.
I am free.
I love my life.
Do this daily and think positive, also pay attention to how you feel. The better you feel about you, the more good will enter into your life. You have built inside of you the power to change your life.