This is a situation where after a happy moment, you unexpectedly become sad. Sadness is an inevitable moment in every one’s live which is not cherised,it comes to every one’s live wether you invite it or not and thus experienced in many ways. Sadness is the kid brother of death; while some experience it on a yearly base others encounter it on a monthly, weekly, daily as well as hourly base. Sadness comes in many ways and it is experienced in many ways. They can be summarized below;
- Most importantly it comes when you loss your love ones through fire accidents, car accidents etc.
- It equally comes in time of either Paternal & or Maternal abandonment
- Furthermore it comes in times when we loss our properties to floods,fire,and bandits
- In addition to that, sadness is experienced when we have little or nothing to eat which occurs in most part of Africa
- Sadness comes when we fail to achieve a long awaited goal in life for example failure to be enrolled in a much cherished institution, failure to be employed into a company and many others.
The cause of sadness
The causes of sadness can be grouped into 2 major categories; they include manmade and natural causes.
Concerning the manmade causes of sadness, humans themselves who try to run away from sadness in the process bring bring one to themselves. How does this works get it, the only way to run from sadness which is in effect practically impossible, is to be Happy always despite the attempts by others to make you sad. Some people achieve wealth another to be happy but in effect cause or leave traces of pain and hardship to others in less privileged conditions. Humans equally cause unhappiness to themselves in a bid to be happy. They try to make there paths smooth by accumulating stones behind them such that when coming back they feel uncomfortable. Besides this , there are many other ways by which humans cause their unhappiness. An example is this hypothetical business man who fell from grace to grace because of the way he tried to run from sadness, he instead ran into more sad moments .It all started when he decided to invest into business- watch out for the next publication on business and unveil the mask behind it. The business this man was propounding was not genuine. He involved himself into drug trafficking. This earned him lots of money such that in less than no time he became mightily wealthy. This of course made him happy. He tried to evade sadness by complicating things for himself, unfortunately for him he ran into the hands of the police and of course he was locked up for trial
Besides the manmade causes of sadness, we equally have the inevitable natural causes. With this we do not invite them; they approach every individual as faith holds for him. It might come in the form of natural disasters as well as illuck.This are things we cannot run away from, we experience it in one way or the other and it is inevitable.
HOW DO WE REACT TO SAD MOMENTS
Most often when we experience sadness, Some are very humble to receive and handle it the way we can while others are very insensitive to accuse others thereby extending there sad moments to them. One fact stands out clear that we still need to acknowledge is that sadness is for every body. with this in mind, humans should be sensitive enough not to be the cause of another person’s unhappiness because he/she has a fate awaiting him/her.Ineffect do not think that another person is the cause of your unhappiness because he might have been the means to your fate and not necessarily the cause
Besides god created the heavens and the earth and made every thing with solution.Therefor sadness cannot go unsolved in every one’s life. The only one who can set you free in deed from sorrow is God Almighty , if every body realizes that any thing that happens is a fate and stop accusing others about it then the world will be a better and brotherly place for all.
