Some people are scared of change. They want everything in their lives to stay the same. It gives them a sense of security when things do not change in their lives.
And then there are people who yearn for change. They want a better home, a better job and a more beautiful and exciting partner. They feel that everything is boringly stagnant in their lives.
Some people see the change but do not acknowledge it, it's too frightening to do that. Others do not notice the change. And some people believe that there is no change going on at all.
The wise ones are those that realize that everything is changing and at the same time, there is something that is not changing. Your body is changing and yet the real you, your Self, is not changing. The world is constantly changing and yet it manifests from the Self that is not changing. See the change around you amidst the non-change.
You are love. Who you are cannot change. However, your expression of love can change. For example, the mother will sometimes feed the child sometimes be strict with them and at other times discipline them with a slap. These are all different expressions of love. But the love within the mother does not change. Love does not change. And love is your very nature.