Have you watch the movie, Serendipity? Its a very nice movie! That movie illustrates exactly what destination is. Its a pursuit for someones destiny that ends in loosing his fiancé but finding his destiny (the girl who is destined to be his). Anyways, Destination is not limited to love life only. It expands all over the canvass of the Creator. LIFE!
Destination can be good or bad. At times one is destined to be burned in hell (like Judas the betrayer) or one is destined to be rich (like Gates children! LOL). Therefore destination is a package for the person who is entitled to have it. Well, everyone (I mean all) is entitled a good life; however, DECISION comes along the way. It controls the fantasies of destination. Moreover it can dictate someones destiny. Oh!? Come on! Look around and wake up! There are a lot of people who are lacking in most of their life. Was it their destiny? Is that the good life that they suppose to have? Have they chosen that path? Maybe yes, maybe not or perhaps they are just victims by another persons destiny or decision.
As a person, we cannot just rely on destination itself. It is very important that we know how to manipulate time and space and hover over LIFE! In this case we will have a clear vision of where we are going. Let me help how to do it!
The pattern is something weve been doing everyday! Perhaps we do not realize its purpose or effect yet. These are thinking, decision, action, practice, habit, lifestyle, finally destination. A step affects the next at all times. Its a cycle with a chain reaction.
Thinking
This is where a person should start and end his battle! Whatever we see, hear, smell, taste or touch always registers in the mind, process, and then we give our reaction, which is based on how we processed the stimuli. Pretty quick huh? What if the situation gets bigger? Remember this: What applies to the least applies to the greatest; If you know the basic you dont have any trouble fixing the complex; and heres oldy but goody: everything that I need in LIFE I learned it in Grade 1.
I dont get it! It is still complicated! How should I do it? Well, heres more practical way:
First, SHUT UP sometimes, will you!? Do not talk about what you have in mind. If you cannot stop your mouth then go somewhere and argue with your self! But stop doing it if you find yourself reacting externally too much with what you are processing in the mind! Go find a psychiatrist! Hehe! Seriously, find time to be alone and reflect. Nobody knows yourself better than you and GOD.
Second, start a good life habit! Talk to people whom you think are better than you. They will invest in your life with wisdom, which are tested through their rich experiences. Read books, it helps a lot! However, do not read books because you need it and you are looking for answers. Read because you just want to read the moral that you will learn will be registered in your subconscious mind. Eventually you will remember them when you are faced in a situation that is related to what you have read.
Third, share your experiences. The more you give, the more you receive in this case is literal. Exchange ideas with your friends. This will multiply your knowledge and greatly improves memory! Trust me this has been my problem (memory). You might not be able to remember entirely what you have been discussing but you will surely remember the gees of the idea, which is the most important.
Important: DO NOT discuss the following with any person whom you are NOT so so so close with: SEX, RELIGION and POLITICS.
Finally, put light in your mind. Garbage in garbage out. See to it that you are in the brighter side of all things. Put Gods wisdom in your heart so that you will be guided all the way to crafting your logic. FACT: God is the only ONE that can penetrate your mind and knows what you think! Thats why the battle is in the HEAD and neither in the HAND nor MOUTH!
DECISION, ACTION, PRACTICE, HABIT, LIFESTYLE, and DESTINATION will be next! For now digest the first part! lol
