This one here is coming out straight from my mind to alert everyone about the facts of life and by knowing them I am sure there will be new and better changes in your lives.
In the world today every individual has got his or her own problems and wants but he or she have left many things unfound.
No mountain is too high for you to climb; all you have to do is find a climbing place. No road is too rough for you to walk but all you have to do is find a walking place. To make a better life we need to find our mistakes and our dos and don'ts and all will be fine. You don't need to think too much about what they are because your actions and reactions constitute to 90% of our problems.
To go through life with little or no obstructions we have to know more about ourselves than others because if we no others than we know ourselves we will only get mad at them easily than normal.
Here are basically seven things you will find very helpful in the remaining days of your life.
- Prayer
- Determination
- Hard work
- Hope
- Faith
- Maximum Attention
- Flexibility and Risk
Prayer
Prayer as we must know is a great key to success. A success without continuous prayer is a fake one. It should neither last long nor be a total success. For example when you are about entering your house and you have your key with you, you will easily enter your house without any stress and neither will you have to waste your energy in opening the door, but if otherwise you will have to force the door open especially in extreme circumstances. Though the door is going to open but the door will not be in good shape and you will have to repair it sometimes later. This applies to the kind of success you will have when you are not prayerful; a success that needs a lot of repair.
Determination
Determination is also a great key to success. You have to make maximum determination to be successful and a constant one. All of your fears cast them on God and let your determination lead you to a good fate and not your fate leading you somewhere you do not know.
Hard Work
As prayer and determination are the keys to success, hard work is the hand to success. It is the hand to success in the sense that if you have the key to your house and you don't have the hand to open it you will just stand there for years waiting for the door to open by itself but with the combination of the hand and the key your door is opened. That's why you see people praying and praying but the success kept staying away from them. So let hard work go with your prayers and determination.
Hope
Hope is totally different from faith so don't mix them up. Hope is a natural part of human life that makes him look forward to the future. It is just a feeling of a future greatness or deliverance and does not attach to any supernatural being like God. It s totally human but all the same it is essential for success because it gears your spirit up for that future happening and thereby makes you a fully concentrated fellow in everything you do and making you to grab the slightest opportunity you find beneficial to you. So you have to hope everything is going to be fine.
Faith
Faith is fully attached to a supernatural being and that's God. You need maximum faith in him and that all your prayers are always answered every time you pray. You should also have the faith that he is going to give you the success you have been daring for since all this days. Please when it comes to prayers you should not hope but have the faith and a maximum one that he has heard your cries and he is going to do something about it soon.
Maximum Attention
This is a more essential part of your life that if you ignore, you will loose many things. Many things will pass you unnoticed and that's too bad if I may say. Try to give everything maximum attention and you will be happy to see everything changing rapidly. One evening I found out something that I will never forget in my life because it has changed my life and brought more meaning to it. I was told by my mother to go and light the stove to cook our evening meal. When I got to the kitchen I found out that the matchbox was a bit wet. I continued to waste matchsticks because they were also wet. I would have gone to get another matchbox but I am someone who does not like giving up easily so I continued till I was almost fed up when they failed to light up. I then noticed that out of the matchbox I was holding a stick has fallen out and was lying among the wasted ones on the floor, which counted up to ten. I took it and believed it was a sign that that stick was the one I had been waiting for and I made use of it and it lighted. I was surprised when it lighted because it was also in the wet matchbox. Secondly, I picked it from the floor when those I was picking from the box failed to light up. These two things I deducted had made an impact on my life since then because they applied to our normal life. It was simply trying to tell me that out of a wretched life there can still be a successful life if the believe is there and that someone one who has fallen and failed can still be great like that matchstick. Had it been I had ignored the incident or was not attentive I would have loosed this great finding which has been a good impact on my life since then. When we give maximum attention to everything and every situation, things will get better I tell you.
I have not said that when someone abuses you, you should go on and slap him or her because you want to give maximum attention. Instead sit and ask yourself why that person has done such a thing and correct that mistake or anything that needs to be corrected. Some wise people may tell you to ignore such situations so as to avoid fights but that will only make things worst because that person will say a worst thing to you sometimes later because you have failed to be attentive and find out what was wrong because a normal person can never abuse you without a reason. Let's be attentive, sensitive and alert because it is of great help to a successful life.
Flexibility and Minimum Risk
For a successful life we have to be flexible by giving chance for changes. Change as we all know is a constant of life. Do not say because your parents have changed their residence you would not be able to read the way you used to do. Do not say that your change of environment will have effect on your normal life. Change is constant and you have to allow yourself to adapt to it. Also, you have to learn to risk things that you know will be beneficial to you but they should be minimum ones. Do not put all your life into risking a business or so, but make sure if there is a mess up you can still get back on your feet.
If you can do all these things I have told you deep from my heart, you are a step to success but believe me success do not come in a twinkle of an eye but with the efforts you have put in and always remember that you should cast all your fears on God and all will be fine because everything we have is not truly ours.
