Everyone has a different personality but have you ever noticed how people are drawn to the people who are always friendly, happy and positive? People want to be around this positive behavior and thinking in hopes some of it will rub off on them. They too want to be positive.
Positivism comes with practice and sometimes inherited by positive influences while growing up. Positivism can be obtained with practice. From the time you wake up to the time you go back to sleep, you must think of ways to see everything in a positive light. Yes, even if you've been given bad news. For example, you get stuck in traffic and you get to work late. Yes this is frustrating but you must think positive. Thank your lucky stars that you were not in the accident that caused the traffic in the first place.
The other thing you must continue doing throughout the whole day is telling yourself how grateful you are for having the things you have. For instance, if you have your health, car, home, kids, wife etc. Then be grateful because there are many who don't have what you have. We tend to take for granted and not appreciate the things we do have until we lose them.
Positivism will draw positive things your way. Positive things will begin happening around you. Thinking negative will only bring negativism in your life. Being thinking positive and see what happens.