This article is quick and to some readers in the audience it may ring on sexism. But I will write it anyway.
Now have a seat and make yourself comfortable. In the next few minutes, I am going to share with you certain truths about dating and rejection that I think you need to know. And if you follow the simple advice I am laying down in front you, it will transform your life.
So please pay close attention...
If you dream of becoming successful with women, you will need to learn how to quickly and effectively handle rejection. Yes, handling rejection is a skill you can learn. Being rejected by a woman will always be a certain probability. And learning to handle the inevitable rejection will prove to be the most valuable skill you will ever learn.
And, if you learn it well and become skilled at handling rejection from a woman, you may even be tempted to include it in your resume. It's your call.
But by comparison, your Masters degree on this…and your PhD's on that…won't even come close to the power and confidence your new learned skill will give you.
Now let's get down to it. When it comes to learning how to handle rejection from women, what you first need to do is erase the DGLS off your personality. What's DGLS? It's a term I coined and it stands for "Date Game Loser Syndrome."
Translated into plain English it means: Fear of date rejection spurred on by a self-induced inferiority complex.
This may or may not be applicable to you. But the truth is; when it comes to approaching women some men need to BUILD themselves from the ground up.
You see, the date-hunting fiction popularized by the pulp media, pulp magazines and pulp TV shows cause many men to feel inferior and derisory of themselves.
Furthermore, many men believe or have been made to believe that to approach a woman and ask her out on date they first need to perform unbelievable, gravity defying feats.
Metaphorically speaking, some men go as far as walk on eggs, dance on barbed wire and recite the entire constitution just to get a date with a woman
But that doesn't do anything for your confidence with women and doesn't always meet YOUR BODY primordial needs.
And believe me, no woman is worthy of that much self-denigration and sacrifice from a man…not at first anyway.
In fact, since women outnumber men by 3 to 1 on the face of the earth, you've got a lot to choose from. Thus, it's the woman who needs to first prove that she is worthy of such grandiose effort from a man.
What's abominable however, in some cultures, men have become totally emasculated. So emasculated that when it's time to approach and talk to a woman, these men will fumble the ball …literally.
In countries like Sweden for example; in an attempt to make boys feel equal to girls and vice versa, some pre-schools encourage the boys to play with dolls. You go figure.
Of course, there are possible positive points to this approach like, thwarting future sex discrimination against women and so on.
But their true agenda goes beyond just protecting a Woman's Rights. Rather, it's designed to meet the expediency of phonically motivated; politically correct battles for sexual equality.
But for what I know only sea horses can - of all male species - get pregnant. That's the closest example of male and female being equal.
Physically and psychologically - at least last time I checked, women were still from Venus and men from Mars.
Thus, what we need are social experimentalists and feminists who will invest the valuable tax-payers resources and energy in teaching boys and girls to respect each other's individual rights.
Beyond that, the pseudo-educators must allow kids to grow according to the physical and psychological makeup of their gender. Instead of trying to have children morph into something they weren't born to be.
But we will get into that in another article. For now let's get back to dating and rejection.
In the number one rated "Build Your Body for Life, Sex and Love," a ($ 20.99, 396-page paperback, Authorhouse, 1663 Liberty, Suite 200Bloomington, IN 47403) fully pictured new book, on health, fitness and rewarding relationships) you will find that, to erase the Date Game Loser Syndrome you need to first start telling yourself the following:
“I am the best, perfect and ultimate choice a worthy woman can ever make on a man.”
Yep, that's right! If you are not able to repeat that short sentence to yourself and believe it, why shouldn't a woman reject you? In fact, she must. Do you catch my drift?
