And, oh yes, let's not forget. Many predatory women love to run into thumb sucking morons that will finance their night out. Many such women, who prey on guys like you, do not necessarily see you as Prince Charming but rather a dumb, spineless, ball-less frog.
Yes, these Singles' bar mavens are predators on the prowl. They are out for a free meal and a good laugh at your silly expense. Give them the slightest change and they will come at you like the Otter (that cute, playful, fun and adorable freshwater carnivorous mammal having webbed and clawed feet and dark brown fur).
Very cute indeed! But the adorable, seemingly vulnerable Otter creature is slippery and impossibly hard to hold on to. Its favorite occupation is eating. It lurches the waters…in search of the Big Fish. And, as you may have seen on Nature Programs on TV; when the Otter catches its prey, it plays with the food before devouring it. It's cruel, cruel and cruel.
And you know? In the absence of Big Fish, the Otter is more than happy to go for frogs (like you) as its favorite snack.
To the Otter - which is a protected specie by the way - a frog is easy to catch and rich in calories.
So here's your new Law on Dating. You will consider spending money on a date only after you've spent some "meaningful time" together and you've been kissed into a Prince.
The math here is obvious. If she thinks you are not good enough to be intimate with; then why should you pay for her company? I call paying for or buying drinks for a date "Passive Prostitution."
Tough huh?
Well, you have to send out the right message: The message that you are not a desperate loner who can't even get a date with an IRS agent.
- Rule Number Four. If you're interested in a hot woman, let her know of your intentions immediately. Chances are, she will either find your honesty and your boldness attractive or she will tell you off right away.
Both ways, you will save time and/or free yourself up to purse even hotter women out there.
And trust me. Just when you think this hot thing is the most amazing woman you've ever seen, there in front you pops up another tantalizing, luscious volcano; ready for you to push her right buttons. Next, just when you thought that ultra-sexy volcano couldn't come any hotter, a nuclear blast walks in the room. That's being beauty of it.
Your job is to keep taking stock and spring into action when the opportunity presents itself. But, remember this important law of the dating game: “If you hesitate you self-alleviate.”
But until you get rid of DGLS, Date Game Loser Syndrome you are likely to continue being a thumb sucking moron of the dating world. Being a Don Loser instead of being a Don Juan.
Finally, dealing with a rejection from a woman is easier than spelling your own name. (I assume you find your name easy to spell.)
If you teach yourself to think of rejection as something that has little to do with you and more do with her inner demons; the rest is predictable.
For instance: The hottie may be unavailable. She may be having PMS. Maybe she has just broken up from a painful relationship and is trying to regroup. Perhaps she lost a loved one and is grieving. She may have lost her job and is worrying about just surviving. It's quite possible she has a low self-esteem or she's just shy. In the worst case, she could be she's gay, a closet lesbian and is not into man at all.
There are a zillion reasons a woman may say NO to you; and 99% of cases it has little to do with you.
Granted, if she rejects you there's one important factor that may come into play. That is, a single drop of a man's semen can fertilize every single woman in America. Just one single drop! And a man can impregnate a woman until late in his life.
A woman on the other hand, is bound by time limits, and has a narrow time-window time to conceive and bear a child.
Therefore, biologically, in her search for a potential mate a woman has to be choosy. It's her way of ensuring the successful surviving of her offspring.
For that, a woman wants to attract an individual of good genes. And being confident and being powerful send a signal that your genes are up to her standards.
This brings me to a final and very important point.
Rule Number Five. Regardless of how beautiful and hot a woman may seem to you, NEVER, NEVER, EVER put up with her disrespect or bad tolerate her bad behavior towards you. If you respect yourself, you won't.
If you approach a woman hoping for a date and she disrespect you or misbehave, you will - without being offensive and degrading - let her know exactly what you think of disrespectful and badly behaving women.
Do that and see how quickly your stature swells in her eyes.
If it doesn't, you shouldn't even consider getting physical with her. Take the rejection as sign that she doesn't respect herself…and as a red button telling you she could put your life at risk,
In Build Your Body for Life, Sex and Love, the book I just mentioned a minute ago, you will find a treasure chest of advice that will propel your dating success to the stratosphere.
Conclusion: Rejection from a woman is less stingie if you become aware of the reasons I've just laid out for you.
More importantly, knowing there are more women than there are men crawling around the face of the earth put us men at an extreme advantage and makes us easy winners of the dating game.
That alone will go a long way in helping you erase DGLS from your personality. You owe it to yourself to try.
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