I am going to show you the greatest power a man can have in a relationship.
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It is not the power to "seduce" women.
- It is not the power to "control" a relationship.
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It is not the power to pick up women with "magic words".
The greatest power a man can have is actually the power to walk AWAY from a bad relationship or a woman with bad character
After years of research, surveys and actual experience, I've come to the conclusion that the neediness in most guys only come as a result of their unwillingness to "let go".
For example, they cling onto a woman even though she's a liar and chronic-cheater. Or he follows her rules because he's afraid of what may happen if he doesn't.
Of course, a man can try to act confident instead of needy through his actions. One can do things such as saying "no" to women on purpose or teasing her whenever he gets the chance.
But an even better way is to just "BE PREPARED TO LEAVE MENTALLY"
You do NOT have to put up with ANY garbage.
For example
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If a woman is SELFISH - LEAVE HER!
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If a woman takes you for granted - LEAVE HER!
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If a woman is a chronic liar, - LEAVE HER!
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If a woman cheats - LEAVE HER!
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If a woman bitches, - LEAVE HER!
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If a woman uses you for money, - LEAVE HER!
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If a woman is "mean" to you, - LEAVE HER!
As soon as you have this "I can leave at anytime" attitude, the dynamics of the relationship will change; the woman will realize that she may lose you if she takes you for granted.
If you're one of those "weak-minded" guys who are always afraid of being dumped or rejected by a woman, then adapting this mindset can literally change your life!
10 Signs a Woman May Have Character Problems
Here are 10 signs a woman may have character problems.
She falls in love WAY too fast.
When a woman advances WAY faster than most women do, watch out. It may not mean you're "lucky", it may just mean you're dealing with a psycho. Watch out for her either dominating your life completely or falling out of love with you just as fast.
She treats her family badly
Watch out for women who treat their family members badly or say bad things about them. Eventually she'll treat you that way too.
She likes to blame the world
If a woman blames the world for everything that happens to her instead of taking responsibility for her own actions, you can be sure there'll be LOTS of drama in your life if you start dating her.
She's on drugs.
Drugs are bad and will mess up a woman's mind and body, period. I can understand college kids smoking weed (though even that is debatable), but anything beyond that is just BAD for you.
She's an alcoholic
In the past I have been flamed by readers for my advice on avoiding alcoholics. To all you alcoholic-lovers out there, I am sorry to offend you but I still stand by what I believe in. It's okay to date an ex alcoholic who's been clean for a few years, but it is NOT okay to date a woman (or man) who is still an alcoholic.
She hangs out with the wrong crowd
As I have mentioned in the past, you can often judge a person's character by looking at their choice of friends. So if your new girlfriend hangs around with the wrong crowd, watch out.
She plays mind games from the start
If you can "sense" a woman is playing mind games with you, chances are, she is. Stay away...or there'll be a lot of drama and hurt feelings...potentially on BOTH sides!
Her income and living space do not justify the lifestyle she has.
A little surprised that she can afford all the nice clothes and makeup when she lives in a hole or works at a coffee shop? It's a sign that she's a gold digger and has at least one other man out there who is supporting her.
Always be cautious about women who lifestyles do not match with their income or home. Even if she is NOT a gold digger, you don't want a woman who maxes out your credit on handbags and fancy gowns when you get married. (Yes - there are many people out there who live on credit. NOT good!)
Her stories don't match up
Do her stories seem to not match up? Watch out? She could be a chronic liar. When dealing with liars and cheaters, follow my two-strike rule. First time, you let her off with a warning. Second time, it's over!
Your friends tell you there are things wrong with the woman
Friends are usually less-biased than you are since they are not in love with your girl. If everybody starts telling you how they think your new girlfriend is a slut or a manipulative bitch, it's time to take a step back and see why they feel that way.
