Whilst full metro sexuality isn't a requirement a man should look after his skin and actually know what manicure, pedicure and sun block are and how to use them.
While sight is the first sense that attracts us to someone it is touch that
will keep us coming back for more. Women are all about feelings and touching has a lot to do with feelings. It stands to reason that if a woman enjoys the feel of what she is
touching she will desire to touch that item / person more frequently and may become attached to that item / person and the good feeling that is created by that item / person
As a man I do not expect you to understand or accept as plausible what I am saying by listening merely to my words for if that were possible then millions of woman the world over would be far happier because the man in her life understand how she feels. I believe that men understand many things better from a scientific point view. As such I would like to advocate that you attempt the following experiment in which I aim to show you the value of the tactile experience in your life.
What You Will Need
- Scissors
- clear sticky tape
- 10 fingers neatly attached to a human male namely yourself.
- Time - two hours or should I say until you "get it"?. Remove the tape from your fingers when you feel that you have completed the experiment.
- A list of the things you enjoy that require touch
- Note pad and pen to write down your observations
Method
- Cut plaster lengths of the sticky tape and attach it to the ends of your fingers.
- Now go through your list and try touching or using the items you listed and write down your observations.
I am sure that among your observations you will list difficulty
feeling anything and difficulty managing to do certain things. My point is this, your observations are also true for any woman who avoids touching you because of how you feel to her sense of touch. How can you expect that if the woman in your life cannot bear to touch you that she will develop any feelings for you? If she cannot bear to touch you then will she not also have difficulty relating to you emotionally?
It is important to remember that the largest organ in the human body is skin and that whilst it may not be a man's most favorite organ it does require care.
The Basic Body Skin Care Routine
A good basic skin care routine should include a great smelling soap that is
also moisturizing.
Moisturizing body lotion should be used so that you do not have the papery skin texture of a very old flaky crocodile. Yes it needs to be applied everywhere except the face. The face requires special attention because it is more exposed than our other bodily bits.
Smell is related to our desire to touch so find a deodorant that works really
well for you and eau de toilette or eau de parfum if your budget allows it. Remember in the application that less is more.
The Basic Skin Care Routine for the Face
- A good soapless face wash so as not dry out the skin
- A good quality moisturizer. These come in two varieties one for the day time and one for the night. It is important that you observe that indication on the jar regarding day and night use.
- Sun block. All skin regardless of what color it is has a built in sun protection factor (spf) of 6 and requires protection from the high levels of cancer causing light that now penetrates the ozone due to the holes in it. You may also take into consideration that the sun protection factor (spf) of a sun block halves every two hours and that sun block is required most during the peak times of exposure to the sun rays are 10H00 am -14H00.
Basic Care of the Hair
Use good quality shampoo ( don't skimp on this, a woman has her nose really close to your hair when she is going to kiss you) and conditioner-- don't skip this part as hair kept in great condition feels great against the skin.
Remember to keep those fluffy bits on the neck area shaved and clean. Make an appointment and see to the stylist or barber that does your hair every 6 to 8 weeks.
Facial hair
Keep in mind that facial hair may be a self expression tool but I have yet to
meet the man who wants to be with a woman who has hard calloused face skin. Your beard and stubble are like sandpaper against the skin of the woman you want to be intimate with and that is what you will be doing to her skin. Shaving is the most common way to maintain facial hair. Use good quality razor blades and look into the varieties of shaving foam, shaving gels, skin softening shaving oils on the market to suite your skin type to make this experience as comfortable as possible. If shaving isn't a good option for you then you should consult a salon in your area about other hair removal techniques which may be better suited to you.
Basic Skin Care for the Hands Feet and Nails
Keep the skin in these areas cleaned frequently and don't let any grit and bits of stuff collect in the crevices in them. Nails should be trimmed short and then filed with any dirt collected under them cleaned out. Short for nails is basically defined as reaching less than the edges of your finger / toe tips when you hold them point down on a hard surface . They also need to cleaned, buffed, and shone.
You can find a nail file specially designed for this at most supermarkets and pharmacies.
Any hard bits of skin should be buffed and removed using the proper tools -- if you have never had a manicure before it is advisable to enlist the help of a female friend to teach you how to do this or to make an appointment with a salon in your area to get it done.
Moisturizing lotion should be applied every time after you wash your hands where possible.
Something to Think About
The state of a man's nails is generally a good indication of the care he will take when touching a woman.
Lastly may I state that it is absolutely important that a man wash his hands with soap every time he uses the toilet even if all he does there is shake, because those are the same hands with which he intends to possibly touch the woman he is with and then quite possibly kiss. Now unless you would shake at the loo using your mouth in the first place not washing your hands should make no sense at all.
