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The "Womanizer" Complex

Energetic and spiritual explanation behind womanizing behaviors.

Can you perceive the energetic vibration beyond the glamorous aspect of the male womanizer in our society?

Among the women collectors' symptoms are no-satisfaction in a single relationship, jealousy, limited potential for commitment, neediness, light or severe behavioral anger toward rejection, people-pleasing behavioral pattern, strong sexual drives, high political interests, developed communication abilities, obsessive critical behavior.

And these, my friend, are the objective manifestations of only one vibration: The vibration of the feeling of lack of power.

Ultimately, a lack of power is not possible for this is our very nature. Our divine energy is pure power. No lesser, no greater, just wholesome power. There is no possibility to not be powerful. However, there is a possibility to not feel this power.

The subtle boundary between these two concepts is called Fear and Low Level of Consciousness. The actual Truth is that in order for such a character to exist, he must create a balance between his inner-feelings and his reality. His emotional survival instinct will provide him with the perfect situation to counter-balance this extreme powerless inner-emotion. This situation is a need to attract multiple relationships that don't vibrate with true caring and loving connection but more so vibrate with material belongings and outer energetic fuel. The sensation of fulfillment rises for a little time and because of its illusory nature, does not last.

Unless this illusory wall is removed to let the Truth out, the energetic vibration remains and the pattern continues. Not only that, the subject must face this Truth but also he has to admit it. This often brings another element: pride.

In numerous societies, the womanizer is portrayed as a glamorous successful individual. This is the first hard step to take. Allowing the physical self to admit the belief in such a weakness.

The universal Matrix created and exposed in the book “Beyond Fitness” gives a direction and a path to follow to help deprogram such patterns.

Change can occur if awareness, flexibility of mind, responsibility, accountability and love are simultaneously experienced and integrated.

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Comments (3)
#1 by Dixie, Feb 20, 2008
What about a 77 year old man who has been a womanizer all his life with 6 marriages on his life's record, all he says were marriages HE chose to leave. Yet for 15 years he always finds a path that leads back to me. Finally I have stopped the grand rationalization that we shared something that none of the others did and ended it. He is like the little boy who is scolded, picks up his marbles and runs home. Then when he sees pouting doesn't resolve things he comes back; however, he never apologizes, he picks up as if nothing ever happened. He claims "I am sorry" is not in his vocabulary. I am the fool here for having loved him so much that it was indeed unconditional.
#2 by J, May 17, 2008
Dixie. . . . I feel like i will be this man when i am that old. I am seventeen now. And i realized today i am a womanizer. I Don't like relationships, I have so much pride, I charm woman/ girls also to the point of driving them crazy. Many fall in love with me for reasons i can never seem to point out. And I always say "sorry is not in my vocabulary." I never apologize when i clearly should. I never take that blame so i don't feel guilty either.
Now i never post things up on the internet cuz i think it is stupid. but i am really really crazy about one girl right now. And after hearing your little story, i never want my special girl to be in the situation you in with this man. . . .So from hearing your story i will try to never be a womanizer, I think i am finally growing up cuz sex doesn't matter to me anymore. It hasn't for a while. and i realized that one woman is all i need i my life. Not the many i had before.
Thanks.
#3 by ASorryman, Aug 23, 2008
I'm 34 and I am a womanizer. I have been with about 30 women in my life. All through my twenties it seemed justified and a tremendous kick. While most of my friends and peers had girlfriends, I was always thinking I was ahead because I was getting laid more then they were. This, my friends, is a one way ticket to ultimate loneliness. I have also found that 95% of the woman I was with are also lonely people. Womanizers attract low self-esteem woman. I finally discovered that I do not want this life anymore when I ran into a pathetic 43 year old still trying to get another lay. He was slimy, angry, and just a terrible person. I thought, that is going to be me, that IS me and it was sad, very sad. I have reevaluated my life and have analyzed my relationships with my parents. My mother is a depressed alchoholic and my father had an alchohol problem while I was growing up. I left the house and I never came back. I am obviously trying to fill some void, but luckily i have now seen the light! I keep thinking how great it would be to be best friends with a wonderful, talented, articulate, educated woman. I usually scare these people away. For you womanizers out there, first, admit it to yourself, then change, then become a contributing wonderful human being!
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