Everybody it seems is talking about "The Secret," and its subject matter, the Law of Attraction. But do you really know the one thing you must have in order to get the things you really desire in life? Whether it's love, wealth or health you absolutely, positively must have... a target.
Using Law of Attraction Effectively
Let me ask you a few questions. Do you know what kind of person you'd like to be in the next five years? Do you know what kind of life you'd like to be living? How much money you'd like to have in the bank? How about how much you'd like to weigh?
If you don't have rock solid definite answers to these questions, don't be surprised. Very few people actually know what they want out of their lives even though they think they do. Yet they run all willy nilly to the bookstores to pick up the latest incarnation of whatever the next Law of Attraction book or dvd is called and a few weeks later throw it into some dark cubbyhole muttering to themselves how "it just doesn't work."
Well of course it didn't work! You didn't do the necessary work yourself! So many people feel that using the Law of Attraction means sitting cross legged on a mat and their wildest dreams will fall into their lap.
Hate to break it to ya ... you have to do something. Anything.
Your Ultimate Life
The bad news is that there is work involved. The good news is that you'll love doing it so much you won't realize that it is work.
What you need, my friend is a vision of what you want your Ultimate Life to be. After all, isn't that why you use the Law of Attraction in the first place? To change your life? Well, if you don't know what that life should look, feel and sound like, how will you know when you've gotten it?
So right here, right now, I'm going to help you discover what it takes to visualize what your Ultimate Life. And don't worry, it's painless and there's very little thinking involved. In fact, the less you think about it, the better. So, are you ready? Okay. Get yourself three sheets of blank paper.
At the top of each of these sheets of paper I want you to write one of the following statements:
- If I was ______________, I would be profoundly happy and fulfilled. My life would be complete and I could consider myself a success.
- If I had ______________, I would be profoundly happy and fulfilled. My life would be complete and I could consider myself a success.
- If I was doing ______________, I would be profoundly happy and fulfilled. My life would be complete and I could consider myself a success.
Now on each piece of paper and without thinking, complete those sentences. Don't think about it and don't worry that your answers are "wrong." There are no wrong answers in this exercise. Like Nike says, "Just do it." Take as much time as you need and if you need more paper go ahead and get some.
Now that you have three lists of things you want to do, be and have, pick the most important one from each list. And from those three, pick your most important one. That is your target. That is what makes your heart sing. That is your Ultimate Life.
Conclusion
What now?
What do you do with this target? Well, that's the subject for the next article.
Or, if you don't want to wait for the next article, you can learn about your Ultimate Life and more by signing up for Mark Joyner's free online course Simpleology 101 ." where you'll learn the simple science of getting what you want.
Either way, by doing this exercise you'll have a much clearer way of getting the life you've always dreamed of but didn't know how to achieve.
Now get out there and manifest a great life for yourself!
