How a man can win over the girl of his attraction-- even when he lacks physical attractiveness.
Enter cautiously into her life. If you barge into her affairs too quickly, the girl of your attraction will likely label you a stalker and avoid your presence. Instead, slowly expose her to your existence. Think of an excuse to talk to her online, find a reason to facebook her and leave a wall post commenting on her page, or get a friend to subtly slip your name into a conversation. Once she acknowledges that you're a solid, breathing individual, you can slowly build up a relationship.
Do your best to improve your physical attractiveness. Maybe you have severe acne, possess a crooked nose, or stand at only 5'2. Despite your most grotesque faults, there are always ways you can improve your physical appearance. If you have acne, use makeup to cover the worst of it. If you're shorter than 95% of the other males in the universe, buy shoes that increase your height. No matter how enormous of a physical deficit you possess, you can always have a clean, shaven appearance. Shower regularly. Keep your hair trimmed. Use cologne. Females expect their potential life partners to have good hygiene, so even if you lack attractive physical qualities, you can at least carry a pleasing odor.
Improve your body language. Women are naturally attracted to men who appear strong, confident, and able to defend future offspring. Ensure that you don't hunch over when you walk. Throw back your shoulders, walk deliberately. You'll automatically appear more attractive.
Learn to assert dominance. Women want men that appear high on the social ladder. When you enter a room, learn to claim territory. If you're sitting, claim an object in front of you by propping your feet up on the object. If you're standing, lean on a wall, elongate your body, and invade as much space as possible without appearing rude or inconsiderate. Check out some more information about dominance in groups of males.
Meet her while doing physical activity. Invite her on a hike or a bike ride. Physical activity increases heart rate and automatically makes the other gender appear more attractive. Even if you lack a magnetic physical appearance, a quick stroll around the nearest park might allow her to see past your faults.
Engage your humor. Find out what sort of jokes she appreciates. Does she laugh at puns? Sarcasm? Once you find out her humor style, attempt to play the role of comedian. If she laughs at your jokes, you're on the right path to winning her affection. Humor can easily make up for a lack of physical attractiveness.
Be sensitive to her problems. As you interact with her, allow her to do the talking and employ active listening to show that you genuinely care about what she says. When she lectures you about Foo-Foo's favorite brand of cat nip, don't try to change the subject. Instead, ask about Foo-Foo's latest trip to the vet or his favorite bedtime story. Though other guys may have that extra inch of height or those six-pack abs, your sensitivity shows that you're willing to discuss the topics that interest her-and that you stand out from the other guys.
Act professional. If you go to a restaurant, be courteous to the waiter or waitress. Don't make a scene when you have to wait 30 minutes for a table. Open doors for her. Bring a calculator so that you can calculate the correct tip. Acting professional will automatically make you appear more attractive.
Interact with her when she's in a good mood, and give her space when she's not. If you interact with her when she's in a good state of mind, she will associate you with positive emotions rather than negative ones. This will lead her to appreciate her presence and may allow a relationship to blossom.
Maintain distance. When you do strike a relationship with her, avoid talking to her every half hour. Don't text her with stupid messages at 1 am, don't become a consistent presence on her doorstep. If you interact with her too much, she will take the relationship for granted and the passion will die. Instead, maintain distance and retain the sacredness of communication.
