10 Ways of Gaining Attention and Sustaining the Love of a Woman

Introduction

Approaching a woman is what everyman has done at one time or another but it is different from what it used to in those old days when it takes time for the attention of a woman to be secured. Some said it is because of the higher ratio of women to men while other believe that late marriages which among other things is due to poor economics, and educational pursuit. Technology is playing crucial roles in dating and approaching women nowadays as organisations are established to bring both sexes together and make relationship to be formed and sustained. The Internet is helpful in creating diverse dimensions sometime those that threaten good relationship and trust.

Nevertheless, the following basic principles could still be helpful in securing the attention and love of a woman regardless of the medium of such act.

Here are ten of them.

1. Acknowledgment

   Find opportunity to pass comments on what a woman does. Do not allow her to sense that your intention is to flatter her even if it is true. So do not "polish" your statements too much that she will have some doubts about the sincerity of your comments. For instance if she is wearing a "new" hair style or clothes without being immodest in your comments let her feel you really appreciated her and she will like to meet you another day. Make your comments appropriate, timely, seriously and mean it so that she will look forward to hearing more of such comments another day.

2. Act Rightly

   You could really gain her attention if you demonstrate some assertiveness. I mean for instance if you have occasion to discuss with her, speak out with enough and convincing body language. A good body language is a very important communication tool. Do not hang your head on any occasion down when speaking. Look at her straight in the face and only few women will not take their eyes away. It is a way of exercising your position as a man capable of providing the necessary leadership and hence protection for her. Every woman wants to feel protected under you and warm under your arm.

3. Pay Attention

   If you pay attention to what she says and do you could always secure hers. Listen to her complaints and show interest in her likes and dislikes. Identify what she likes and create interest in them. You will most likely enjoy the same level of attention and close relationship.

4. Avoid Hesitation

   Hesitation is when you do not act when you suppose to act or you do not act at all when necessary. It is an element in exercising doubts, resulting in indecision. A woman likes a leader who will take decision and stand firm in his position but at the same time believes in a man that shares with her in decision making.

5. Exude Confidence

   Cultivate good carriage and confidence. Do not give impression that you cannot and are not able to handle your affairs and that of others. Conduct yourself well publicly. When you talk to her do not fidget but communicate comfortably.

6. Speak Well

   On no occasion should you rush when talking with her. Talk clearly and avoid fast speaking as it may suggest you are not comfortable and this may ignite her suspicion on your level of confidence and ability to be a man in her life. Calmly therefore approach her or any issue in your discussions.

7. Learn a Decent Sense of Humour

   Occasion could present itself that a decent humour could catch the attention of a woman and sustain it. You could actually draw her attention to you if you apply the art of humour as most women are thrilled by humour and can give attention to anyone that gives a decent one that could make them laugh. You must choose the right atmosphere to do this otherwise it might be out of place and counter productive.

8. Maintain a good Distance

   You do not need to be unnecessarily close to a woman you are just meeting. Maintain therefore a bodily distance that will make her breathe freedom and enjoy her privacy and self-respect. She will respect you for your understanding and your respect for her.

9. Good Countenance

   It is your facial disposition not your handsomeness that could attract her to you or put her off altogether. I call it smile medicine which turns every heart on and melt "hard" heart also. Learn to put a genuine smile and not a grin.

10. Give Gift

    The act of giving gift is an attractive mean of gaining attention but must be wisely done. Find therefore a suitable period, item and time to offer one.