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10 Ways to Know Your Man is Cheating on You

Everyone desires a faithful partner. This is always not attainable. Here are how to know if your man is scoring low on fidelity.

Relationships are truly remarkable and enjoyable when both parties involved are committed and faithful to each other. It could then be a source of joy and a bond not easily broken is usually formed as the relationship is based solely on absolute trust for each other. Although most of us desire absolute faithfulness from our sweethearts, the reverse often is the case. How would you know your partner is cheating on you? Find out 10 ways to know your man is cheating on you.

Frequent quarrels

Every relationship has ups and downs. Since you are two different people from two different backgrounds sometimes there are bound to be quarrels however, if your man constantly quarrels over every flimsy thing, always making a mountain over a mole hill then, there is trouble you should do your homework

Sudden late nights

Keeping late nights once in a while might be no cause for alarm but if he suddenly develops the habit of keeping late nights, sometimes under the pretence of seeing a particular friend, friends or even family members, something he doesn't do before then something fishy going on.

Sudden work over time

Working overtime is necessary sometimes for a couple of reasons. True as this may seem it is important to note that the number one excuse an unfaithful mate gives for keeping late nights or for not coming home at all is “I was working late”, therefore, if he habitually does the things mentioned above because he is working late, girl keep your antennae working.

Frequent threats of seeing other girls

If for every little quarrel he threatens to start seeing other girls this might be not just a threat but a true confession in disguise.

Excessive mood swings

Does your man's mood change easily, surprising gets angry at any little thing you say, always insinuating that your words are either stupid or senseless? This is a sign trust me I know.

Public insults

Since we are not perfect once in a while it is possible to make embarrassing remarks but if your man constantly insults or belittle you in front of others especially at public functions or other social gatherings then girl wake up.

Physical abuse

If your man starts to abuse you physically especially after you accused him of cheating on you then it just might be true.

Frequent verbal abuse

There in no relationship that is completely rosy. At those bumpy times, it is not unusual for one or both parties to use harsh words on each other however, if your man turns this into a way of life deriving joy in verbally abusing you on regular basis then this is a good sign that he is seeing someone else.

Financial negligence

Your man may not be financially buoyant all the time. He could be working on a particular project and this could affect his cash flow. This is understandable but if your man starts giving you excuses all the time when it come to spending money on you, there is a big chance he is spending it on another woman. If this trend continues then open your eyes and see the hand writing on the wall.

If he calls you another name

Most men at one point or the other would give themselves away. Has your man called you another woman's name and started giving questionable reasons why he did so? Has he done this once, twice, or many times? Then your man definitely is cheating on you.

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Comments (15)
#1 by Bored, Dec 21, 2007
men are all cheats, hate men
#2 by zara, Jan 5, 2008
Men don't desrve a good woman! Men are weak, sad, and low creatures! Woman are better of without them. Hate weak men , hate them all!
#3 by Howard, Jan 5, 2008
dear Zara

u sound pained. U hate weak men or u hate all men? all men don't deserve a good woman? who defines a good woman? you, women, or ur man? wow very nice article. facinating read for a man like myself. but no woman with me need read this. If am cheating on u, u wont know unless i want u to. if am fed up with u, i simply tell ya. much more simple
#4 by bigMale, Feb 4, 2008
men are cheats i agree. am a man and a cheat. not really our fault i believe its in out genes. you cab only be good to keep us from straying too long or too far. how can u expect us to control ourself when dresses are getting skimpier and girls cheaper!

don't hate d playa, hate d game
#5 by Wiser girls, Feb 27, 2008
i love men, yes they are cheats but who aint. You should write an article on how to tame your cheating man. it can be done cos i have done it.
#6 by christine , Apr 16, 2008
huh..i think all men are cheaters..BUT they are good in hiding it to their partner..all of them are all inborn to womanizing...admit it guys...!!!!dont lie..all my bf do that!!!
#7 by gwendie, Apr 21, 2008
I think when a man is cheating he thanks he can hide it but he can't becase they tell on their self by just the way thay act. All men are loosers. My marrige is on it's rocks can't find out if he is really cheating on me.......
#8 by wudnt u like 2 no, Apr 23, 2008
well i fink at da end of da day every1 cheats at sum point or another it just means ur not in2 ur partner as much as u 4t or ur feeling lonely and you will neva no if some1 is cheating untill you have hard evidence so stop been paranoid bcos the truth always comes out eventully untill then please ya partner better or dnt cheat ya self
#9 by k, May 24, 2008
I'm very sad..he looks at me different...he speaks to me different and tells he is a private person and that I am beginning to nag. I have asked repeatedly to see him he gave me not answer.. I kept asking and I am now nagging.....I refused to be label a nagging person..it's insulting,,
#10 by susan, May 24, 2008
I know he is cheating but he cuts me down before I can properly accuse him..I hate him for this..
#11 by confused !, May 28, 2008
i dont know if my man is cheating?? but iam hurting in the long run i cant let him go. its too pain full because i dont know for sure if he is. i have asked him and he swore on his familys life hes never.not all men are cheaters i think i have to build up trust because its not just this bf i cant trust its any bf ive ever had and dont know how to trust !!! some 1 help me on this one please x x x x
#12 by kerri , May 28, 2008
one night my boyfriend was at a party and i called him up to go down to party to join and my boyfriend and this girl keep looking at each other and i dont know if they cheated before i got there but we had a big argument over this and he promised nuffin happend but i cant move on i keep thinking iam seeing this girl every where cant get her out my head and i am shaking every time i think of that night i think it is driving me to a mental home what should i do ? i dont wanty leave him i love him
#13 by fozia , Jun 8, 2008
im in a relationship to and im begin to see early signs of dishonesty i avnt bn wiv him long but ive had enf experience to tel if a guys cheating and he says he loves me bubt refuses to loose contct wiv gals that wil lead him astray he i sn his facebook coments n lot of flirtin n now hes taken me off his facebook pro cos he nos am jelous n he has over 3oo gals in his facebook pro n jus 1 guy now dat says it all n e stil adds mre men men men just arhhh drive u all mad cos deyve got to many desires n ones neva enuf
#14 by Lewis Lovewand, Jun 27, 2008
C'mon now people.. yeah i have cheated in the past but only once and that was because my partner at the time wasnt giving me any sex what so ever so i was bound to go else where! men are great i luv em, as i am a fag this is a good thing otherwize i would stil not be getting any. But to the point i have been with someone now for about 5 weeks, but the strange thing was tonight he came to mine but thus was acting well wierd,i spent a few hours with him then shinia'd off to start my night shift.
maybe im just paranoid, but now im thinking bout the way i treat him - LIKE A FOOKIN KING. CAN YA HELP? maybe all men are cheating bleeders!
lewis 22 manch
#15 by Emma, Jul 1, 2008
Well gee i dont know if my partner has or is cheating but he has all the signs but 1 and he doent hit me my latest abuse was him calling me a f%#khead and a C%#t and i was ugly and this morning i got up and he was on the lougne and he was getting msgs all morning and 1 was from an ex girlfriend that we seen @ the pub 1 night and now he has her number and he said they were only talking but i could be reading to far into it coz he doesnt hind msgs or anything but i just cant understand y he got her number....? coz the msg she sent him this morning i looked @ was blak i dont know wat to do.......
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