15 Reasons to Ask Them Out

Ever been thinking “what if?” or thinking about why you aren't just walking out to him/her and asking him/her to lunch? Well here are a few reasons why you should.

1. If you ask him/her out the worst they can say is “no”.
2. People respect confidence usually so it does in fact help to just buck up and do it.
3. The more times you succeed the easier it will be the next time around.
4. The more times you fail the more you learn about what you are doing wrong.
5. There are plenty of fish in the sea (not to be clichéd) so if you are rejected then don't worry about it too much.
6. Don't rely on matchmakers or online dating services any more than is needed try to just meet people normally first.
7. It will often help to get new clothing though or new hairstyle to keep it fresh and keep you confident.
8. Always keep a backup plan or comment so you don't look like an idiot if you get rejected.
9. Make sure you have some idea of where the two of you are in the social caste (not to be a pessimist but mixing between social groups doesn't really work the same as in the movies).
10. You usually want to be friends (or at least acquaintances) before you ask him/her out this will help because you will know a bit more about him/her.
11. Never ask your friends to ask him/her out for you or to find out if said person likes you the same way, this is the cowards way out.
12. If you aren't feeling up to it then don't do it right away you usually have time and you don't want to make a fool out of yourself.
13. Don't become obsessed though because that will just make you seem creepy and will be a real turnoff.
14. Try to find a good moment (as in don't ask him/her out if they just had a person die in their family.
15. Don't rush it but be brave and take a risk your love life is a pretty big contestant with the rest of you life even though it is far from the easiest part.