So you've been going out for three months and he's totally into you. He buys you flowers and follows you round like a little puppy. But will it last? Read on to find out how to treat him if you want him to stay like that forever.
Don't Give Him the Third Degree About His Female Friends
This may seem harsh, but it is true. Guys who have a special someone don't issue a hands-off-and-don't-talk-to-me policy for all the other girls they know - for them, it's alright to have one girlfriend and many female friends, and hanging out with them doesn't mean he's cheating on you. And he'll like you all the better if you chill out and join in the fun.
Don't Ask Him If Your Arse Looks Good in Skinny Jeans
If he's with you, he likes you just as you are. Evaluating whether you look fat in skinny jeans is a dangerous topic for boys - if they say you don't, you might think they're lying, and if they say you do, they might get dumped. Can you see what a sticky situation it is?
Don't Buy Him Expensive Presents to Make Up For Fights
This is a bad idea, as it makes you come across as a materialist whose only intention is to get back into the good books, when all it may take to sort the matter out is to talk it over with him. That's what guys feel more comfortable with! And he's also not compelled to buy you something in return. Easier on the pocket, easier on the heart.
Don't Insist on Being with Him 24/7
Guys, like girls, need freedom. If you try to control him and stay in your sight all the time like he's a little kid, he's going to get tired of you. And you don't want that! Be content to spend time apart from him sometimes - it's alright to pursue separate interests.
Don't Turn Up Late for Dates Because You Took Ages Getting Ready
This is a tricky one. It's paramount to look nice on dates, but when you keep your guy waiting for very long this can wear the poor thing out. Either shorten your beauty routine or start early.
Take An Interest in His Interests
This will help you to get to know him better, and it will also encourage him to take an interest in your interests too. So, bring on the football talk, Metallica and computer jargon...or whatever.
Accept That He Can't Always Be The Perfect Boyfriend
Well, you can't always be the perfect girlfriend, even though you probably spend longer trying to than he does. And what does it matter? Enjoy your time together and let little flaws slide.
Don't Complain to Him About the Pimple on Your Nose
This is what your girl friends are for. You're supposed to bitch about celebrities and paint your nails together. Boyfriends are for going to the movies and grabbing hamburgers with. They're not interested in the pimple on your nose!! They probably won't even notice it!!
Call Him Once After a Fight, But Don't Keep Calling Him
If he hasn't called you, he might need time and space to just be alone and think awhile. This is alright as it gives you time and space as well, to reflect and be away from him. It's normal - people need to be alone sometimes. Keep calling and he might stay away even longer.
Tell Him You Love Him
It's as hard for him as it is for you, but believe us, he'll love you more if you tell him. We daresay he'll be pleastantly surprised too, as so many girls expect the guy to do the telling-her-he-loves-her thing - so be different and take the bull by the horns. Spread the love!
