Still in LOVE?
Do something about it!
Have you ever had a bad break up, or are you going through one right now? I bet you think it's the end of the world don't you? Did you know that there are a lot of things that can be done to prevent the loss of self control, self esteem, and stamina? I bet some of you find it hard not to sit and cry and let your self be upset. Here is a LIFT UP!
Not a let down.
If you are just ending a bad break up and you blame yourself for all the things that went wrong. I can tell you that it is not your fault. 99 percent of the time the two of you were not meant to be together in the first place. I know you probably think that you love this person with all your heart, and that you are going to die if you don't get that person back. But your not going to die and you shouldn't let yourself be upset for something so crazy in the first place.
Even if you really do love the person that you are breaking up with for whatever reason, or the person is breaking up with you, you should keep in mind that the love that you have for that person can be taken and given to another person who will return your love 110%. Just choose the person better this time so you don't get hurt again. Don't forget rebounding is never good. Give yourself a little time to heal and then get back in the game and find a winner this time.
I know that there is still that one percent chance that the two of you were meant to be together, but if that is the case don't let yourself worry, time will bring that person back.
Here are a few tips to finding that perfect someone:
When looking for that perfect someone make sure that the two of you have a lot of things in common, but don't be a fool, don't pick someone who is exactly like you! What fun would that be? I'm sure you would prefer someone who is interested in of your hobbies, desires, dreams and thoughts, right? But hey don't forget you are human and you need space, so make sure that your significant other has things that he or she likes to do alone or away from home. The biggest problems with couples and marriages these days is that neither person has their own free time or personal space, so breakups spawn from that.
Make sure that the other person has friends and hobbies of his or her own. Its not good to pick a loner. Then where would they go when you needed your free time?
So good luck this time. Make the right choices. Don't settle just for anyone because you are lonely. You are worth the best that there is.
