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Dating Tips for Ladies |
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by LaffingRain, Mar 27, 2007 |
What not to do in a dating situation. |
1) Don't pull your boyfriends little pinkie even if he asks you to..
It ruins the romantic moment when he lets out a bunch of gas...
2) If dating a psychologist for the first time, don't be talked into going to his cabin on the mountain to view the landscape..he will ask you to disrobe and sit on a rock with him and he says this will free up the relationship to honesty. He just wants to get laid fast before you've finished your tea.
3) Never bring an ex-boyfriend into the same room as a new boyfriend. You are clearly out of touch with reality if you do.
4) Don't date a man with a cell phone who's ex-wife calls him three times a day. He's not as free as he thinks he is.
5) Don't pick up a man who looks like he needs nursing, even if you're a professional nurse, although love is healing, you don't want a full time job of it.
6) It's best not to be interested in men who are public speakers because they think you are also their audience, and you wind up being that. You can see the signs of a speaker type, if they put up a podium in the living room.
7) Placing an ad for a mate can yield up quite a parade of would-be-partners. It makes interesting material for a book but be prepared for the unexpected. They don't call it blind dating for no reason.
8) In general, dating bi-sexual men can be confusing. It's best to decide which one of you is gonna be the man and which the woman before the relationship commences rather than after it gets going. We all have both male and female traits in us, but we are all born with either a yin or a yang polarity energy within. Know thy self well first, which of these you desire to express and find someone who wishes to express the opposite of your charge. That way you complement each other.
9) Age may be a factor. Don't date a man 20 years older than you. There's a generation gap there which is hard to cross.
10) On the other hand, don't date someone 10 years younger than you. They are emotionally immature, then they get mad at you and say you are acting like their mom when u didn't mean to.
11) Don't let a man think he owns you even if you marry him. He's way off the beam there and you'll never get him straigtened out.
12) If you meet a guy in a bar, don't be surprised if he drinks after you've landed him. After all, you met him in a drinking establishment didn't you? You want a teetotler, better go find him in nondrinking establishments and good luck!
13) If making out a list of what u want in the way of qualities in a partner, you will get what you want. however, be careful. whatever you left out of the equation is gonna be there too.
If finding a companion is that important to you, you better take a very long time constructing your list, otherwise the universe will say it's your own fault, you left out a couple of points you wanted. |
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