A simple dating guide for guys. Five simple tips for the average Joe, you could say.
Don't be nervous! One of the most common mistakes a guy can make on a date is to psych himself out. It's easy to be intimidated by a beautiful women but it's ok; just don't let her know you are. Just remain calm and cool and be in control of your emotions.
Be the alpha male! Alright I know this sounds like all the other dating how-to's and such but this is real. Women really like men who are decisive. For example, when you and a girl are planning a date, be the one to decide where to go. The point is that you have to show the women that you are in control of the situation without making her feel threatened.
Be a Gentleman! Notice that it doesn't say be a complete pansy pushover, it says gentleman. A gentleman holds open doors and pays for meals, but a softy would buy everything for her. He does her nails, laundry, walks her dog, and etc. A gentleman respects a woman's feelings; a softy always wants to talk about them, even when she doesn't want to.
Be real! I'm not saying be your complete self because that's not what dating really is. Just don't be someone you're not. Dating is basically getting to know someone you're attracted to not only physically, but mentally to. When people date, they don't tell the other person every single thing about them. That would scare the other person off. You need to give the girl enough information about yourself to see if they are interested. If not then move on.
Most Important of All! Remember, there are other fish in the sea. Don't tell yourself that you can't get another girl because there are more girls in the world that you could count in your life. If you keep saying "what if she doesn't like me making advances? Maybe I'll just play it safe," then you will never get anywhere. It's better to try with a girl and get shut down than to play it safe and be caught in the "friend zone." Take a chance.
