Coming back to your exboyfriend is a major task. It is as hard as building a relationship it self. But for you to be successful with your quest you have to show him that you have dealt with the reason that lead to the break up.
The first thing for you to do is to analyze the real reason why you broke up with him and try to work on it. I it was your fault, try to work on your self so as not to breakup again for same reason. It would be easier if he were the one that caused the breakup. Once you are through working on your self, you can then contact him, not to talk about the failed relationship but you can start by asking how he is doing and you just wanted to check on him. This would tell how much you cared or him when you were together.
While you are doing this try to start off in a slow key. Build the contact gradually, up to a certain point that both of you get to see each other constantly again and get more comfortable with each other's presence. And when you are together with, try to bring up plays that both of you loved doing then; you will be making him to miss those times.
As you spend time with him try to show him that you have changed. Taking away those things that lead to your breakup. Try as much as you can to look more attractive. Be so attractive that you tend to draw the attention of other guys. At least while he sees that you draw the attention of other guys, you tend to draw his attention.
You know that your will have to prevent the same reason that lead to the first breakup. With this you would be tending to a strong relationship with your ex.
I am a successful guy and have had a bad habbit of being able to have what ever I wanted.
I was in a relationship for 3 years and in the last 3 years I took my girlfriend for granted, as a started a new business.
She came to me many times to tell me and I ignored her telling her she knows how I feel...
Well I ended the relationship, for no apparent reason, and for the first time in my life I realize after a 2 month breakup that I was an idiot....
We have been speaking now...and gone out a few times, but she is keeping me at a distance... I have explained to her that I was a jerk and the reasons why...and how I have corrected all the issues which lead me to take her for granted...
Although we are having a great time when we go out.... and I have explained to her that I would like her to spend the rest of her life with me... she is still mad, because I did not listen to her earlier....
HELP me.... what can I do to win her back? IS there any hope or once a girl has gone through the heartbreak of the breakup and prepared herself for the relationship being over.... is it too late?