Most men hide to sneak around. But did you know that there are men that cheat in plain sight and their girlfriends are none the wiser? And usually it’s with someone close to them like their ‘best friend’. Here are 10 signs that you should look for if you believe your boyfriend is cheating on you with your best friend.
He Questions You About Her Personal Life
He comes up to you and casually asks you if she ha s a boyfriend, which is okay. But then he wants to know why not (if she doesn't have one), what's her age, what type of men does she usually go for, is she the freaky type or the conservative type, etc. Why is all that important to him? Get suspicious
He Has Her on Speed Dial
Why? He has you on speed dial (that's expected), his partners (of course), his mother (maybe), his job (perhaps). But why does he have your best friend on speed dial? I honestly cannot think of a reason to justify that, Can you? Get suspicious.
He Hangs Out at Her House More Than He Does at Yours
So you call your friend at an ungodly hour so you both can gossip all night and she mentions that he is hanging out at her house. Or she says “He was just fixing something for me and we got caught up in hanging out, that's why he is here so late”. OR “He was in the neighborhood and just dropped by”. Now he doesn't have to lie about where he was. And what are you worried about, that's your best friend, she will never do anything to hurt you. In any case it's good that they are getting along right? Wrong. Get suspicious.
They Dress Alike
When you buy matching clothing for you both, he complains about how corny it is. When your friend and him happen to appear at places together wearing the same thing then he thinks that it is cute. Get suspicious.
She Cannot Seem to Find Her Way Around Without Him
Before you met your boyfriend, you and your friend were very capable of getting from one place to the other. But now your friend cannot even seem to go anywhere unless he drops her in his car. Even if its to the grocery to pick up one tin of peas. People see them together so often that they are starting to wonder whose boyfriend he really is. Get suspicious.
They Touch Each Other Intimately
When you and your boyfriend are hanging out together, you may touch his face when you laugh at his joke, blush uncontrollably and lightly touch his chest when he compliments you, pass your hand teasingly down his thigh, bat your eyes and flirt with him. It's very cute. But is it cute when she does these things with him also? Get suspicious.
He Can Remember Her Birthday But Not Yours
How hard is it really to remember your birthday, especially when it is days apart from his own, you remind everyday for a month and keep hinting about what you want? But he remembers your friend's own and shows up with just what she wants, jewelry. You on the other hand, got a card and a coupon. Get suspicious.
He Always Takes Her Side in an Argument
So you and your friend have a difference of opinion. He acts as mediator. You know your friend is right and he takes her side. That is only fair. But does he have to take her side when she is wrong also. Isn't he suppose to be doing that for you? Get suspicious.
She Boasts About Him More Than You
You are the one that goes to your friends and boast about how great your guy is. He is so considerate and sweet and he does every thing for me. He worships the ground I walk on and the air I breathe. And you can't help but talk about him. But when it's your friend starts talking about how great your guy is and how much of a gentleman he is then Get Suspicious
He Confesses to Stuff You Didn't Know About Because He Thinks He's Been Caught
So you call him and say that your friend just called you and says that she has something important to discuss with you and she is on her way over. You ask him if he knows what it's about. He starts panicking and confesses to stuff before she has a chance to tell you. All she wanted was a cake baked for a party, so why is he telling you that they kissed and it was accidental. If it was accidental they should have mentioned long before that. Get suspicious.
There are many other signs you can look for. Keep your eyes open and your heart safe.
When you look into your boyfriends eyes, there is a clue threatening to cry out, and a clear time, when your mind is curious about the dangers of experimenting, his preference speaks volumes. So don’t cancel your suspicious nature just yet.