Many people who have gone through a divorce feel they have been cheated and have been made to waste a vital part of their life. The reasons for divorce are many but in most cases it leaves at least one partner feeling cheated and out played. Whether the mate ran of with a younger sexier person individual or was caught on bed with another the partner feels betrayed and hurt. These feelings of being let down can lead many to seek to revenge or hurt their ex partner. This situation is what is called or popularly known as divorce revenge. Divorce revenge is arguably more common among women.
A woman who was married for about 5 or more years might feel very bad about her recent divorce and decide to pay her ex husband in like coin. Smashing of cars, wrecking of apartments, spreading rumors and incurring huge debts on his card are all common forms of divorce revenge that is common. These actions might be done in anger or spontaneously while others have gone having taking time to scheme ways to really hurt their ex spouse. Before you rush to be involved in divorce revenge take time to consider the consequences.
For one thing the fact that you are interested in divorce revenge might just be a sign that you still miss your ex or are still being controlled by him or her. After all you are still occupied thinking about him and what you can do to him while he is going on with his life. Divorce revenge might be a fun way to relieve some stress and get even but I assure you it won't still be much fun when it gets you in jail or before a judge. It can also earn you a bad reputation as a spiteful person and people who would have sympathized would say "no wonder he left her".
No matter what you think whenever a divorce happens two people are involved and the blame can thus be traced to the same two people. You ex spouse might have a greater share of the blame but you can not dump it all on him. Instead of seeking divorce revenge you can think of how to move ahead. How to help the kids cope and what to do so that you and the kids are least affected with the effects of the divorce.
