DIVORCE HAS ITS UPSIDE , ONCE YOU STOP LOOKING AT IT BACKSIDE.
Divorce from a mans point of view is a demon which can grab you by the throat and take you in to the depths of despair. As you watch all that you have worked for in your life go down the toilet and the realisation of loss and isolation takes hold .Anger , blame , denial, revenge all these keywords come into play if you are on the receiving end of the breakup.
So if you are in the process of , or have gone through divorce you may be at this moment be saying “what upside?”
What you aren't taught when you are growing up, is that life is about movement . We are energy being’s living in a physical container and if that container is to restricted and not flexible enough to allow growth then something has to give. Our true being will not remain leashed . So this being the case we subconsciously create the circumstances of change to allow movement .Sure we have choice ,however if we are not consciously maintaining and environment of flexibility for ourselves and those we are in relationship with than the circumstances are created where this becomes possible.
So we get to the upside. You at this point in your life have been given the opportunity to do things differently. The way you relate to your ex and your children if you have any, can come from a place of conscious knowing . Acceptance of responsibility for where you now are brings freedom and allows you to create a future in which respect, trust and flexibility becomes your new keywords.
So is looking up starting to look a lot better then that other side you have been viewing life from?
