I guarantee you that if you do at least one or more of these a day, your relationship with her will change for the better.
Talk to Her
Gentlemen, set aside everything - everything - and talk to her. Turn off the TV. Put down the paper. Face her, then talk to her.
Call Her at least Once in the Day
Let her know you're thinking about her. Don't call her with a list of things to do. Just talk to her. Call her later for “business” related things.
Buy Her Some Flowers
They don't need to be expensive or fancy (take off the price tag though), but they'll go a long way.
Write Her a Note that you Know She'll See Some Time in the Day.
She'll find it and know that you were thinking about her.
Do the Dishes ... Voluntarily.
After you pick her up off the floor from the shock of you saying that, let her know you'll do the same thing on that day every week. And mean it.
Smile at Her
Look at her and appreciate all the things she does. She'll notice.
Talk Positively About Her to Others Especially Around Your Relatives
Finally, Encourage Her
Find a way to compliment her, to lift up her spirits. Ask her what you can do to encourage her. Thank her specifically for cooking or cleaning or taking care of your children.
Obviously there are countless other ways to love your wife. Make your own list. Talk to her about it. Enjoy her. I guarantee you that if you do at least one or more of these a day, your relationship with her will change...for the better.
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#2 by Maikh Etto, Jul 18, 2008
I really appreciate your piece, especially numbers 5 - 7. Very wonderful
#3 by Leah, Jul 19, 2008
There seems to be a lot of communication there...wouldnt it seem as if someone was smothering you or being a little on the crazy side if the guy even went to the extreme of writing you a note on top of just having called you?? lol
#4 by tenger, Jul 20, 2008
Leah, Yes but the element of surprise is on his side. Do all of them once a year and really keep her guessing! lol
