I talk to a older man who is successful on his family life. He told me about life and wisdom. One of the words that he told me that “unless you are married you will find life more successful” because you have to learn to save and be financially literate. No man can be successful unless in find a beautiful wife and a family. He told me that you will never be successful financially unless you get married because all your money will be use for your own pleasure and most of all people around you will take advantage of your money because you are single. No man is an island. You get married not beyond 29years old because you will be old enough to see your grandchildren. Your happiness is beyond measurable when you see your grandchildren playing with you. Grandchildren have all the advantage to ask for favor from you rather than their sons and daughter. You have to decide that everybody must go this process. Otherwise life is no meaning at all.
When you get married always remember that all the gift is already enough to have a family of your own. You have to be separated with your parents otherwise you can't buy your own belongings. It is only thru marriage you will stretch your own energy to provide your family needs. I ask him how could you provide the best if your salary is not enough to support a family. He told me , I ask you when will you start a family? When will you decide a family ? If you only decide when you are financially stable then how many years of work do you need to be financially stable? What if you are financially stable at the age of 40 or 45 years old. Would it be enough to fulfill life than you expect would be.
If you always reason out then it's already to old for you to go beyond life more than they beauty it self. You have to decide when you stand and make it your own.
