Marriage issues I believe are many. There are times that we want to give up especially when things get overboard. We try to find reasons to work things out yet we find our strength is not enough.
I have only been married for a year (I have two kids though). It was on June 9, 2008 when I discovered that my husband was being unfaithful to me. Before having dinner that evening, he was in the shower when I had the instinct to check his phone which I don't usually do. There I found out that he's having a relationship with another girl.
When my husband entered our room's closet to change his clothes, I looked at him sternly and handed him his phone. At a very indescribable feeling, I asked him, "What's this?" He said it was nothing. He embraced me as if he was sorry for what he did. I wasn't convinced. I again questioned him "Who's the girl?" He had a hard time telling things to me. Then I told him if he wants us to go out to the dining room and have dinner with our family, then he must tell me everything right then and there. He still didn't answer. We were there for more than half an hour when he finally broke his silence...
It was painful, yes it was. The pain was too hard to bear. I barely slept that evening. Thoughts came running to my head. I wanted to cry but there were no tears falling on my cheeks. It was too confusing. I didn't know which way to go.
Friends, wait until I finish the story. I still have a long way to go. I'll publish it on my next article.
