Unfortunately the number one reason that women are attracted to men is wealth. Its amazing how tons of money and fame can mask age, appearance, personality and character. Some women don't really care. They will put up with anything in order to share in the wealth and the good life. Of course, that's not 'every' woman. Read on for what woman find attractive when money and material wealth are removed from the equation.
BE A LISTENER:
Women love it when you are a good listener. It makes them feel that you are truly interested in what they think and feel. It gives the impression that you care about them for more than one reason. You are much more likely to have success with women if you are attracted to them on several levels and not just the physical one.
MAKE THEM LAUGH:
It seems like the boy/girl game is far to serious at times. Guys are always trying to think of new ways to hit on women. Really, there are no new ways. They have all been tried. Women no doubt, get tired of fending off the oh so obvious 'pick-up' lines. Forget all that guys. Make them laugh. Women love the guys who are not always so serious. Get rid of the "macho guy" look and ease up.
BE IMAGINATIVE:
Take them on a date and do something totally different. Something they most probably have never done before. Something that will intrigue them and make them feel 'special.' For instance, I live near the Rocky Mountains. In the Summer, there is a helicopter company that will take you and your special date to a mountain top meadow complete with a picnic lunch and blanket. For a few hours you will totally alone in a stunning setting.
Here is another one I really like. From my city, you can fly to the Pacific coast in about 90 minutes. There is a dinner package that includes a flight to the coast early on a Saturday evening. A limousine is awaiting your arrival at the other end to whisk you to a large ship for a "dinner cruise." For several hours you will drift offshore with a moonlite sky and enjoy an amazing dinner with your date before flying back home the same evening.
These are just some examples. You don't have to do something this elaborate or expensive, but look around in your area for that unique getaway that is sure to leave a lasting impression on that special woman.
CLEAN YOUR CAR:
There are lots of women out there who don't care what kind of car you drive. They don't care if its old or new. However, they do prefer that it be clean. If you have a date with that someone special, be sure to clean your car inside and out. I gurantee it will be noticed. Also it shows respect.
COOK FOR THEM:
Having a woman over for dinner is a sure way to impress her. Especially if you are not too bad a cook. Even if you are not a great cook, they will love that you are willing to make the effort. Clean your place until it is spotless. Do lots of little extra things that your date will know you did just for he. Like wine and flowers on the table and maybe candles. A winning combination for sure.
CLEAN THAT BATHROOM:
A clean bathroom is right up there with a clean car. Actually its probably even more important. Nothing will turn off a woman faster than a messy bathroom. Make sure that toilet seat is down and spotless. And above all shine that mirror because every woman in the world who goes into a bathroom will be looking into the mirror.
MIND YOUR MANNERS:
Some guys have the impression that good manners are just not important any more. Nothing could be further from the truth. A display of good manners while on a date will not be wasted. Rest assured that women will notice and it will make you stand out from the crowd.
BE SENSITIVE:
Be in tune with her feelings. Show interest in how her day is going and what is happening in her life. Make your conversations more about her and less about you.
Have you ever seen a couple together that seems like a mis-match? For instance a beautiful woman who could possibly have any guy yet chooses a sort of plain ordinary looking one instead?
Connecting is not all about good looks. Obviously this "plain ordinary" looking person knows how to relate to a woman and has probably taken many of the above suggestions to heart.
