This will depend though on if the person you want to ask out is a co-worker or a friend. Sometimes co-workers are easier to ask out romantically. There are better situations you can set up in order to capture their attention. If you are friends with the person you will need to figure their schedule of when they will be home and have their phone number and email.
Female Co-Worker
- You can order flowers and have them delivered. This will get everyone talking. Women will crowd around when another woman gets unexpected flowers delivered. They also tend to get jealous. You will flatter her immensely. Be sure to have a note attached that the flowers are from you and you would like to talk to her privately.
- Give her a Valentines Card and ask her out to dinner.
- Leave a single rose on her desk attached to a note asking her out on a date.
- Attach a heart shaped balloon to her office chair. Attach a note saying who it is from so she can thank you and you can ask her out. Or she wonder why you gave her the balloon and you can tell her you want to get her attention so you can ask her out.
- Email your co-worker some poetry and ask her what she thinks. Then when she responds call her on her office phone and see if she would be interested in hearing more poetry over dinner.
Female Friend
- Make a CD or cassette of love songs. If you know how to sing you can sing these songs.
- You can email her poetry and then ask her to meet with you later. This will be when you ask her out.
- You can text message a sexy message, but nothing too graphic otherwise it could turn her off. Give her an idea that you may be interested in being more than friends with her.
- Leave a rose on her doorstep with a note asking her to meet you for dinner at a certain time at a certain place and you will wait for her.
Asking a man out is a bit harder for women. You may want to flirt a bit with the man you like. Gage whether or not he is interested and then see if he wants to go to dinner. Many times however, men will assume you are ready to sleep with him if you ask him out. Try to get him to ask you out. Sometimes when you are friends with the guy it may be easier to start up a relationship with him as you get to know him better.
