If you've ever sat in a bar and wondered how come a very ordinary looking man seems to be getting so much attention from the ladies, it may be because he has mastered the art of being cool.
They understand the essence of why women find certain men so attractive and they use it to their advantage. They don't need to seek attention with outrageous comments, an argumentative attitude or an extrovert manner, which can be so off putting to women.
Neither do they people please all the time, trying to find out what women want and twisting their real selves to pretend to be that imaginary person. Women can see right through such an act and will label this guy as false or manipulative.
Watching a man who can handle women well, you could be forgiven for wondering how he gets away with all that teasing, making fun of them and generally winding them up - in a friendly way of course. He just seems so comfortable with himself and women keep coming back for more of his humour and good natured banter.
This man rarely buys anything for his dates and certainly couldn't be accused of spoiling them with gifts and surprises. Sure, he knows some interesting places for dates and seems to know all kinds of people who can help out if he wants to organise something special. You would have to go a long way to find anyone who has a bad word to say about him.
This guy has a way of making women yearn for his company; he doesn't come on to them, in fact he more or less ignores them when they first come across each other. He will talk to their friends and make them really wonder if there's a basic attraction there at all.
So when he finally does decide to turn his attention to her, she's really looking forward to getting to know him. Of course it's a bit of a game, but no one's getting hurt.
Actually the cool guy has a way of making people still want to be friends with him even after he calls it a day on their relationship (needless to say he's been calling the shots and she's been doing the chasing). They love his independence, humour and balanced attitude, even if there are regrets that he's now with someone else.
