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How to Catch Him Cheating

Many women know that their boyfriend is cheating on them but many women don't know how to catch them.

The three easiest ways to catch your boyfriend cheating

  1. Check His Phone

    This sounds obvious, buy many women never even think of this as a way to catch their man cheating. By simply looking at your man's cell phone you are able to see all his recent text messages and phone calls. By viewing his text messages, both received and sent, you will be able to see everything he has written to other girls and everything he has received from other girls. If you get lucky, you will be able to catch him calling another girl by baby or sweetie and you might even catch him making plans with her in the message. If you don't get lucky, that means that your man is smart and constantly deletes all the messages in his phone, in fear that you might look at it someday. If all the messages are deleted, check out his recent calls. You may notice him calling a certain girl a lot, check the dates and times of the phone calls to see if those are the same times he says he's working late, going to watch football with the guys, or just hanging out at the bar.
  2. Go to Where He Says He Will be

    This is a simple, nonchalant, way of seeing if your man is cheating on you. If he says he's going to the bar to watch football with the guys, then go see if he's really at the bar watching football with the guys. Show up there with a couple of your girls to make it seem like you just so happened to end up at the same bar. After you are there, locate him. If he's there, great, but who is he with? Look to see if he's sitting at the bar with his buddies watching the game, or if he's there with someone else. If he's there with another girl, you win. This also works if he says he's going to a buddy's house to watch the game, simply drive by his buddy's house in one of your friend's cars to see if his car is there or not. If it's there, good, if it's not… call him until you know where he is, who he's with, and why he's cheating; or at least lying about where he is going.
  3. Question Him

    If you want to catch your man cheating without going through the hassles of finding where he is, or figuring out who he's calling; simply question him. There are two main ways to approach this; the nonchalant way, or the straight forward way. If you don't want to come out and simply ask him if he's been cheating on you, then ask him questions as to where he always is, who he goes out with, until it leads up to the fact of the matter that he knows you know something is up. If you don't want to cut straight to the point, then just simply ask him if he's cheating on you. There is nothing more obvious than a scared man trying to tell a lie to save him from looking like a fool. Girls, you can tell if your man is lying to your face or not, don't be stupid and fall for his excuses.

Closure

If you don't catch your man cheating, congratulations, you may have found prince charming! However, If you do end up finding out he is a cold-hearted cheater, drop him. Don't keep him around thinking maybe he will change, because the chances are slim to none that he won't. He will keep making you believe him, just like he always did. Don't be stupid ladies, find someone you deserve that won't make you sit at home and wonder what he's really doing.

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Comments (1)
#1 by Puzzled, May 19, 2008
Yes I was wondering if anyone has a clue to how you can find out if your hubby is gay or not? I haven't ever seen anything but he sure has a friend he loves hanging around with and works his butt of helping him for nothing. And he tries to get me to go with him I don't know if he is just doing that to try to hide somehting or if he really wants me to go and sit on a rock while they work. I am so confused I don't know what to do He has went out on me 2 times already with 2 diff women, but he has said some thing about some men that makes me wonder if anyone has any clues or answers for me I would appreciate it.........thanks Puzzled
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