If you lost someone that you thought was right for you. Obviously they weren't the right one. Or maybe there just wasn't suppose to stay in your life. Then again it all depends on what type of losing your talking about. Break up, or death. But I know how it feels because i have been through the same thing myself. Well the break up part anyway. I thought my ex was the right one and I lost him. And when we started talking again I figured out that he wasn't the right one. Remember everything happens for a reason. Maybe you lost the right one because he/she was the wrong one for you.
And now its time to find the right one. No im not saying its easy because when your with the person that you thought was the right one and you love them. You feel like there is no one else you want or anyone else to do you better than they did or how they treated you. How to deal with losing someone you love. It takes time. Try to think about something positive. And its time for you to realize that its over, no maybes included. Surround yourself with people you love. Like family and friends. But also take time for yourself. Now see me, i thought that if I would just push everybody away and get my space and think things through. That it would help. But don't push people away. Because you can't blame them and act that way towards people just because your hurt inside. You need them.
Yea your going to cry and think about past times and past memories. And the thought of his just keeps wondering through your mind. Thinking about what is he doing, where he is at. But just give it some time. That's all. Nothing in this world is easy. Once you been in the dark so long, the light is going to come soon. Remember that. And just hope that everything is going to be ok. Sometimes you have to act like your alright and show people your alright, to actually be alright. Even though its killing you on the inside.
If your in love with someone and they love you back and you let them go or they let you go. If its meant to be they'll come back. Somehow, someway they will find there way back to you. People come in our lives for a reason. You might not know it yet. But some come to show us reality, some come to make us stronger, wiser, and so much more. So my question is how do you know for sure if there the right one? ......You don't. You don't know for sure. But you just go with they way you feel and how they treat you. And that's the best way to go.
