Liz was going home one day and she had already made up her mind to leave her boyfriend. She was tired and wanted to start her life over. Brian is not going to know what hit him. What do you do?
Believe it or not, this happens more often than you think. Probably has happened to you a few times. So how do you get a woman and keep her? Guess if I had that answer I would be rich. Here are some hints to help you to catch a woman and keep her.
- Pick the right woman to begin with. There is nothing worse than being with someone for all of the wrong reasons.
- If you have picked the wrong woman, get rid of her and get another one, but get it right this time. You life is too damn short to be screwing it up again with the wrong woman again.
- Be flexible and willing to learn new things. This means getting out of your box and do things you never would have done before. Especially if you weren’t allowed to in a previous relationship.
- Make sure the woman you pick is willing to do new things as well. This recipe will keep things fun, entertaining, and never boring. (Well almost never. Mundane has a way of creeping in all relationships. This is not bad. Just recognized it and be wary of its pull)
- If all else fails, look at those around you that seem happy and have been together with their partner for many years. They probably know something you don’t
Basic stuff, I know. The reality is that there is no single recipe for good relationships. It takes the two people involved to be effective communicators and willing to work hard. If you can do this, you can get a woman and keep her.
