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How to Gracefully End a Bad Blind Date

Have you ever been in a bad blind date, and did you end it? What is the way that you end it? I think that it is better to end it gracefully, without hurting each other, and may be you can be good friends later. A good ending means a good start.

However, it seems that it is not so easy to end the blind date gracefully, if you cannot handle it properly. If you took the end of this kind of date without resentment or guilt feelings, you would find that you are in the sunshine after it. Dating can be blind, though we know that blind dating has rare chance to be successful. Actually, all you need to do is to make it clear to the person you date, and make it open by proper ways.

Do not blame any one, and do not shout at the person you dated. Mind your manners, and find an excuse to end the blind date, and you can use a white lie. You should say something to show your appreciation to meet the person, while make it clear that you want to end it for so-and-so reasons.

If you want to tell the person face to face, remember to dress formally, and get to the place in time. However, make it with a different air with that of a dating. After you tell the person you dated clearly about your idea of the date in a way that it cannot hurt each other, you can leave there as soon as possible. If the person likes you, and loves you, it would be a problem. In this case, you need to hold your position well, and since you know that it is impossible for you to be together as a husband and wife, you need to stop it.

Many people do not know the truth that I mentioned above. Therefore, most of them are in breaking-up situation, and it makes things worse. The end of a blind date can cause you to feel uncomfortable for a period of time. If you have the direction and your own idea about your other part, end with the manners that I talked about here. No pain, no anger, no resentment, no unpleasant feeling of any other kind. Particularly, women would find it more difficult to accept that fact that they have to end the blind date, and they don't know how to end it gracefully.

Considering the situation, outrage may be the feeling of either part, and they show dissatisfaction, or their grievances. It is not the right way. Therefore, I think, you should end it gracefully.

Personally, I am against blind dating, though it is exciting sometimes, because there are few who can be successful in marriage from blind dating. However, if you were in the situation, just end it gracefully.

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