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How to Know If a Boy Likes You

Below, I will tell you 10 things on how to know if someone likes you. This information is based on my personal experiences and a little bit of research. If you like a boy and don't know if they like you back, then read below.

  1. Watch the way he looks at you. If he keeps looking at you, he just might like you
  2. If he flirts with you too much, he probably likes you. Boys might flirt with you just for the fun of it, and it can be misunderstood as a crush. Watch out for boys who flirt.
  3. If he acts weird or different when you come near him, he might like you. Watch his behavior when you are talking to him.
  4. If he wants to pair you up with someone or says "I know who likes you," then he probably likes you.
  5. If he constantly tries to get close to you or touches you, he probably likes you.
  6. If he turns red when you come near him or when you talk to him, that means he likes you.
  7. He might ask you a few questions that might make you uncomfortable, for example if he asks have you ever had a boyfriend or have you ever been to a date, then he might like you.
  8. Make friends with his close friends. They might say something about him liking you. Talk and flirt a little with them. If he gets mad for flirting with other people, then you know he likes you.
  9. Start a small conversation with him and his friends. Try to notice these things:
    • If he keeps trying to get close to you or tries to hold your hand, he likes you.
    • If he is confident, they will match your voice tone and he will act like he does with his friends.
    • If he is shy, his voice tone might be a little higher or lower depending on what he acts like. He might smile and laugh nervously at your jokes.
  10. If he says he likes you, then he likes you!

Tips

  • Be yourself. You don't want to start acting like someone else, because he may start to lose interest in you.
  • He might be looking at you while your not looking, so keep an eye out for him.
  • If you know a boy likes you, try talking to him and be nice.
  • Try starting nice conversations.
  • Compliment him. Boys like being complemented.
  • Boys love good looking and good smelling girls. So try to dress nice and use perfume.
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Comments (73)
#1 by ron, Nov 13, 2007
haha this is true..i do most of these things to girls
#2 by Chloe Harris, Feb 22, 2008
There's a boy in my class I have a crush on so I flirted with him a little bit and it worked were boyfriend and girlfriend.
#3 by Elizabeth, Mar 16, 2008
I liked it it help me with all the boys in my class,its really hard when im the ONLY girl in my class.
Thanks it help
8-)
#4 by Maekinzie , Mar 20, 2008
well i have this crush on this boy and he ask's me these random questions and all my friends think that he likes me. But when I walk past him in the hall his face turns red and he always looks at me. I will take some tips:]]
#5 by ElLiiEe , Mar 31, 2008
I Like This Boy Called Conor
And He Has Done Like All Of This Stuff Soo ...
Should I Ask Him Out ? x
#6 by DiAnNe, Apr 1, 2008
Hey, i am do not know if he likes me or something but he tries to hold my hand and sometimes he told me that he loves and then he said that it was just a joke and then he told me that he was jealous of my crush but he told me that it was just a joke but when he told me that i was beautiful i was shocked he did not say it was a joke...... does he like me or not????? just wanna know......
#7 by Sara, Apr 4, 2008
There was this boy at school called Adam, I love him sooo much, and 1 day, in class, he sat next to me when there are loads of other empty chairs..but he just had to park himself next to...ME!!! Then he 'accidentally-on-purpose' touched my hand (if you know what I mean) and started talking to me eventhough we weren't that close before! By the way, I have experienced tips 1, 4, 5, 7 and 9..so, I hope he actually loves me back! Thanks for tip!!
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#9 by maha, Apr 11, 2008
Thanks alot..it really helps me ...I was wonder and struggle to with some boys who stared at e when they look me and say out my name ...thanks alot
#10 by Darla, Apr 13, 2008
I reckon that this is true.
Thanks for the advice.

It helps.....
#11 by Hannah, Apr 16, 2008
their is this one boy he likes me but i don't know if i like him back and all my friends and his friends told me now i told my friend to tell her friend because they are in the same class as that boy to tell him to stop starring at me and that i know he likes me so i guess the stuff on here are true and tomorrow i an going to where perfume tomorrow.
#12 by STELLA, Apr 18, 2008
I HAVE A PROMBLEM. A BOY SAID HE LIKES ME AND I AM SURE HE DID.
WE WENT OUT WITH FREINDS AND HE ASKED ME TO GO DINNER WITH HIM THE NEXT NIGHT. I TOLD HIM THA I AM GOING TO THE CLUB WITH FREINDS AND HE DID NOT WANT TO COME.HE ASK ME TO GO WITH HIM FOR DINNER BEFORE CLUBBING AND I SAID THAT WE CAN SOEAK FROM THE PHONE.HE NEVER CALL ME AND KNOW WHEN HE SEE ME HE ACTS WEIRD HE TRIES TO AVOID y?
#13 by Confused, Apr 18, 2008
Hi, There is this boy i just met. i just started liking him, out of no where. he is so nice, funny, normal, a lil sporty, and he complimented me. I always make a fool out of myself when i am near him, and i think that makes him uninterested.. i try to be myself but i dont no. well he doesnt go to my school , but my friend talks to him a lot and she started asking him some questions.. he thinks i am werid, "but it is cool" soo i was a little upset, but he also said he might want to ask me out. I think that was a way to get my friend away from him. One day he complimented me on my dress. and i was so nervous i gave him a thumbs up. I am such a dork... I dont no what to do.. i always look tired and my hair is puffy so i look strange around him.. i dont see him that often, and when i look at him he doesnt always seem to be looking at me.. some one reply to this and give me advice...
#14 by Confused, Apr 18, 2008
also, my friends say he likes me for my werid self.. but i dont no if i can believe that.!!

#15 by Allison, Apr 19, 2008
There is this guy i like and i told him i liked him. he didn't say anything so the next day i saved it with i was just kidding. We are the most popular people in class so it is embarrising.He is atheletic and so am i. When i went to the library he followed me.We had to go run after that but he was like making me take him to run.He said exactly this, i have no one to run with i don't think you don't either.Every one else is already partnered up.He was like fishing me to run with him.So i said yes.He was really kind to me and he was telling me jokes.When we ran that mile it seemed like a minute.I really like him.We went to Lawarnce Hall of Science and we were in the same car.He was trying to sit with me and he was trying to make me wear his hat.i wore it.He smiled at me and told me more jokes. Thats how i fell in love with him.
#16 by just me!, Apr 26, 2008
would u like a boy secretly even if u knw your friend likes him and she says he likes her but he flirts wid u behind her back.
#17 by Jacey, Apr 27, 2008
Heyy... there is this boy i like but he has a gf... last year we dated for about 5 months than we broke up and now hes been asking one of my friends how i've been and if i still like him. than he askd her 2 ask me if i wuld go bac out with him again. than i was e-mailing hom and he started to send me a bunch of hearts but he has a gf. i told him not to send me hearts YET than hes like fine so i said fine and he started to laugh. do you think he still might like me or hes gonna ask me out again?
#18 by jazzyg13, Apr 28, 2008
there is a boy in my church and he is very cute and i like him but it is hard to tell if he like me he is always playing and hiting me calling me big head that on time i was setting behind him in the mirror and he started to blow kiss at his self and i know that he is not that kind of person he said chris brown with you is our song he is heard to read i am friend with his bestfrind i useto go with his best friend and all his family and his other friend keep saying he like me but i want to here it from his moth what should i do?
#19 by kekeg13, May 3, 2008
my bestfriend has this brother who looks cute he act like he like me but around his friends he talk about me i usto really like him. i went out and got aboyfriend and he hates him they usto be friends every time i am talking to him or nere him i start back to like him he hates my boyfriends and i hate is girlfriends we are a good match but he is sending me mixed signs what should i do?
#20 by confused, May 4, 2008
there is a boy in my class who looks at me very much he likes blinking his eye to me .and last time i went to sit by him he put his head on his desk and he touched my tighs.the next day he took a broom and he was looking at me in sexy way as if he was having sex with me he is always turning away if he sees me with my friends.he came to sit on my desk during break time and put his hand around my desk .does this mean he will marry me in future?
#21 by eeeeeeeeeppppppppp, May 7, 2008
a boy in my class during math he tripped over my bag and said he ment to run/bump into me but he ran so fast he tripped. today another guy in my class said to me soooo when are you to getting married!
#22 by jiaria, May 8, 2008
there this new boy at my school he aways make kisses face at me and flirt with me so i ask him do he like me he siad yes know we go out and we went on alot of dates and we kiss a lot and we have sex a lote
#23 by Laura, May 9, 2008
After I did these tips, A boy told me he liked me
#24 by micah, May 9, 2008
this girl sarah likes me and i didnt tell her i like this girl emma but she likes this boy thomas so now i really like her
#25 by Libby and Thomas, May 9, 2008
when i read this.... i tried it on a really cute guy(thomas) so i asked him and now were together
#26 by zach!!!!!, May 10, 2008
i saw this girl elizabeth and i really like her but it seems like someone else but i really hope shes likes me!!!!
#27 by micah,thomas,and zach , May 10, 2008
we really like these girls but i dont know if they like us so please commet
#28 by zach, May 10, 2008
i really like this girl and shes so hot and shes in 8th grade and i'm in 7th but shes so hot this website is so awesome and i hope it works for other girls to and they really like me because i'm really hot and all the girls like me adam and chris so i hope that we can all be friends !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
#29 by maya, May 11, 2008
when this guy named Austin first moved back to this school i was new and i thout he was sooooooooooooooooooo cute i may only be ten and he is only nine i looked up on the internet how to get a boy to notice you and wrote EXACTLY 25 tips on that then the night b4 scool i studyed them and put on make up and he said my face looked like a fruit pie i was mad so my freind haley gave him the note and he said YES i was soooo happy that i forgot that he used to call me syco all the time i would chase him all around the class room we both got in trouble then i started passing notes to him and we started dating it was the best yime EVER.
#30 by Kelly M, May 12, 2008
I'm still strugulling with my crush but im trying because he always stares at me everyday!!!! I dont think there was 1 day were he didn\'t his name is Allan
#31 by Daisy , May 13, 2008
Ok dis is kool but if i like a boy how should i knw if he really likes me
its kool its kool like it dude who ever wrote dis its very nice congrats
#32 by jenny , May 13, 2008
kkkkkkkkk d above was a mistake my name is not daisy its jenny my bad sorry str8 right daisyis my middle name koollllllllllllllllllllllll!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
#33 by anonymous, May 16, 2008
i have a crush on this boy....but his friends has a crush on me and i dont want to hurt them........what should i do???????????
by the way all of these are true and esterday he hugged me 5 times then he said ''can i be your bf''i dont know what to say
#34 by angel4321, May 17, 2008
this boy is so cute. he always stares at me and he likes me. he is so shy and he asks my bf about me. ALOT. ireally want to ask him out but i am shy. i will really try these tips!!
#35 by campanita, May 22, 2008
hahhaha yeah i like it im gonna try all dis hahha funny he is goin down now hahhaah lol
#36 by vernita, May 23, 2008
does josh really like me?
#37 by anonymous, May 23, 2008
OMG! theres this 1 guy i really like but im starting to like another. im losing hope on the first guy i like. hes really cute and funny and smart. and hes french! how cute is that! what should i do because ive been really liking this perosn for like 7 months! if 1 doesnt like me should i continue to like the other? HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
#38 by 10909, May 24, 2008
This boy I like asked me out but I said no because his frends were waching me.Then he allmost asked every girl in my grade to go out whith him (all said no.Then he said I broke his hart.But he is the class clown, so should I beleve him?
#39 by 10909, May 24, 2008
Help anyone?
#40 by 10909, May 24, 2008
Hi anonymous!Stick whith the french guy!!!!!!
#41 by adam, May 25, 2008
i really like this grl sarah and we got in a fight yesterday and our friends sarah c., liz,rachel,murille,wynn,kylie,david,joe,joesph,catlyn,paul,ben,
bobby,grace,parker,&jackson sarah was just like walking the other way and ignoring me and i was just sitting there with sarah c.,liz ,joe and wynn and then later were like sarah and adam hug so sarah hugged him because he was to nervous
#42 by liz, May 25, 2008
I really like this guy named Zach and I think he likes me because he always looks at me
#43 by cut3grl, May 25, 2008
Theres this boy named Leo who I think likes me but Im not too sure about it.I mean he always looks at me which Ive noticed but whenever I look back at him he doesnt like smile.We can like look at each other for a long time but he never smiles.Then there was this time when I think he and his friends were playing around and he like bumped right into my shoulder and he was smiling too.I didnt smile back though cause it was at a time when i didnt think he liked me at all and I just thought it was an accident.Then there was another time when I knew he was looking at me cause I was sitting down with my friend Adrian and we were just talking for a moment then I just started looking around and I saw from a sideview that he was looking at me.Its like he was jealous of me talking to another guy.A long time ago another boy whos also named Leo came to me and said \"Leo likes you\".I didnt want to believe it though cause at that time he was currently dating someone (They broke up now though) but now I do believe it.I feel like he does like me but I dont want to be wrong.
#44 by cutie, May 26, 2008
hi...got the problem here...i\'m beginning to like a guy unfortunetely he is takenhe had a relationship for five years and the woman went abroad for almost one and a half year.They broke but the woman is coming back to take a vacation.i dont know what to do..i\'m confuse and at the same time hrt...knowing that i\'m falling for him...i dont know what to do?to fight or to surrender?in the first place she came first.. :( .....maybe i\'ll just give up..
#45 by lizzy, May 26, 2008
people say this guy named Zach likes me but I dont really know! Its so hard because 1 day we were at a boys house and He had all these boys over and they started to hug to make Zach mad and he started blushing! So we decided to make up and now we are boyfriend and girlfriend
#46 by nay nay , May 26, 2008
i really love who ever wrote this thank you now i will really know that this guy really does like me and who knows soon we might be boyfriend and girlfriend!!! THANX!!!
#47 by yche, May 28, 2008
, yuppy, this is mostly true as i observed a bunch of boys in my class.
Especially during early teenage years!
#48 by coco, May 28, 2008
ok so i love this kid and he knows that i like him and last time his friend told me that he liked me but the kid i like said no, he didnt like me and sometimes he looks at me but the kid i like is so shy and he has never talk to me and so how can i know if the kid i like likes me back please help me i am realy confused...
#49 by ilovejustinbraswell_14, May 29, 2008
cool i tried this and now i live happilly ever after with him
#50 by Kristine, Jun 2, 2008
i love this boy and he is a gangster and he is freak'n fine his name is jesse he is like dammm......... and i like him but i don't know if he likes me i he flirts with me allot but i don't want to get close cuz he is going out with my bff and he asked me out and i said idk cuz he was still going out with my bff
#51 by mlhsm2411, Jun 3, 2008
There is this boy at school.
#52 by mlh, Jun 3, 2008
I like him
#53 by dakota, Jun 5, 2008
idk if this boy likes me he's always near me looking at me and talks to me plz plz tell me what i should do plz:]
#54 by joan, Jun 9, 2008
Thanks for the tips, very helpful
#55 by blue, Jun 9, 2008
well i like this boy name chris and i don't know if he likes me back. I talk to him sometimes but most of the time i stay away.I like hima real lot but i'm not sure if he does back. He called me once but because i called him first and i'm pretty sure his friend and my friend mitch pushed him to do it. well anyway thanks for the help.!
#56 by Deathetta, Jun 11, 2008
Yeah, I gotta admit, some of this stuff is true. My guy friend always looks at me when I\'m not looking, and touches on me consantly and he even sings to me! Oh I love my guy friend!
#57 by prasadi, Jun 13, 2008
yh i had a big crush on this boy wich got to my school. one day he waved at me and when i told my friend she said that he likes me but first i didnt like him bt now i love him bt i cant go and sya it to his face so what should i do?
#58 by yasmine, Jun 13, 2008
well i want a boyfriend what shall i do
#59 by rayven smith, Jun 15, 2008
yeah i think that u should be ur self wen ur around the guy that u like so that he knows who the real u is..
#60 by hera white, Jun 18, 2008
i just don\'t know if he likes me or not. when we were 12 we were just a plain friends. but after 2 years we have given a chance to be in the same classroom again. it happened that we fought with each other almost everyday. until the time came that we didn\'t talk much with each other. we used to talk most of the time and share our experiences in everyday of our life. sometimes we teased each other just for fun. and sometimes do our get together during dismissal. but it came that we need to separate because of our misunderstandings.

during the time that we were still close, it came to the point that we were getting sweeter. our classmates noticed that but we just ignored it. there was also a time that he shared his seat with me. oh i admit it. that was so sweet. he also looks straight in my eyes. that was fun! and honestly he\'s my ideal bf. he\'s tall,handsome, and athletic. he\'s also nice to me but sometimes we did fight. up to now we don\'t know our status. i don\'t know if we\'re still friends. the way he looks at me when i\'m not looking is very different now. it\'s sweeter this time.
i just don\'t know if he likes me. please comment me. thanks!
#61 by Hayley, Jun 18, 2008
Hi I don't know if this boy likes me or not he sometimes calls me names when he is with his friends and then i chase him down the school hall and 1 time when i did that he pushed me against the wall and i just wanted to grab him and kiss him then lol and then one of his friends came and he walked off with his friend.

he also keeps looking at me all the time he denys it though, he says it's me thats looking at him. does he like me....
#62 by leanne raftery, Jun 19, 2008
i realy like this boy in my class his name is ben fox and he sites at my table he has a girl freind rebecca and every time we do singing in my class he looks into my eys and i look in to his.


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#63 by i love ben ivy, Jun 21, 2008
my nickname is liz and i like this guy called ben but i dont know if he likes me we have alot of class\'s together and one time he was going to ask me out it was between me and my bf and my ex ran up and said my bf is so much better then me so he picked her but they didnt last so now we talk all the time and i had to a dance in front of him it was like a lap dance for school and he said he liked it what do you think? lizzy love u long time
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#64 by POOH LOOKIN\' FOR HER SPYDA , Jun 22, 2008
I MET MY FRIEND ABOUT 2 YEARS AGO AND ABOUT 2 WEEKS AFTER I MET HER I MET HER FAMILY BUT 1 PERSON STOOD OUT THE MOST IT WAS HER OLDER BROTHER AT FIRST WE WERE JUST FRIENDS BUT AFTER A FEW MONTHS I GOT TO KNOW HIM AND I STARTED TO HAVE FEELINGS 4 HIM I OFTEN STAY OVER THEIR HOUSE AND MY FRIENDS GET MAD AT CUZ THEY SAY I SPEND TO MUCH TIME WITH HIM HE ALWAYS ASKS ME WHEN ARE WE GOING GET SERIOUS AND HE\'S ALWAYS SLAPPING MY BUTT AT FVIRST HE WOULD DO IT NO ONES AROUND NOW HE DOES IT IN FRONT OF ALL MY FRIENDS AND WHEN WE HAVE DANCE PARTIES AT NIGHT HE TURN OUT THE LIGHTS AND START DANCIG ON ME.BUT I DONT KNOW IF HE\'S SERIOUS SO SHOULD I GO FOR IT OR NOT?
#65 by POOH LOOKIN FOR HER SPYDA , Jun 22, 2008
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#66 by *$BABE$*, Jun 26, 2008
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#67 by CANDY, Jun 26, 2008
OK SO THIS I LIKE LIVES IN AN STATE AND HE COMES 2 SEE ME EVERY YEAR,HE IS CALLING ME ALL THE TIME . I CALL HIM 2 WE R TXTING LIKE ALL THE TIME WHAT DO I DO?????????????????????????? I WUNT 2 TELL HIM I LIKE HIM WAT DO I DO?????????? FROME-DANCEA
#68 by anonymus, Jun 28, 2008
there is this guy and i think he likes me. he always sits next to me and trys to hold my hand. he tries to kiss me but then his brother always comes and ruins it. what should i do?
#69 by misunderstood, Jun 28, 2008
theres this boy in my class.i really like him.hes short but cute.ive seen looking at me a few times in class.i think he likes me.a rumor got around tht i liked him too.every time someone said that,he just smiles at me.im gonna tell him i like him.i just hope he liks me bac.IM SO CONFUSED!!!
#70 by Torn up , Jun 28, 2008
There is this boy i really like, and last night i couldn't help but look at him all the time, hes soo hot, and a nice guy. Last night i stayed out with him and we ended up kissing and talking about people we like, and i told him i liked him, and he said he liked me to, and we kept holding hands and kissing, and then i went home and now he won't reply to my fone calls or my texts, and i'm confused, does this mean he was lying about liking me, or does he notlike me any more, or does he like me but doesnt want to answer the phone for some reason. I'm soo lost by him,
#71 by lonley gurll, Jun 29, 2008
hi,, i proper like this boii i have for about 4 months and he alwaiis seys he loves me but then i go what did u jus saii and he come3s out with something different then what he saiis when he talks to me he alwayys talk in a nerdy voice and alwaiis larf and go''s red at my jokes when they aren't funny please help me ????? xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
#72 by sos, Jun 30, 2008
there is this boy that I kinda like but my friends dont really like hanging out with boyz at all so i dont know when ill get a chance to talk to him. he said he liked me but i dunno if its true. i wanna meet up with him and stuff without ever1 knowin coz i just need to get to no him properly AGHHHHHH help. how do i know if he likes moi..?so someone plz help and whoever replys omg i luv u. some1 id be so happy if u help, it would make my dai. thanks everyone x
#73 by awesome one, Jul 5, 2008
omg, this so helped. and i hve a problem. this dude likes me, and my best friend likes him. now all she talks about is her liking him. ITS SO ANNOYING. god, what cn i do ?!
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