Before reading any of these points to remember, ask yourself first: (Remember these are important questions that if not answered sincerely, then it would not work for you) Do I love him with all of my heat? Am I willing to do everything? Do I trust him? Am I really committed to him? Am I ready? If in all these questions, your answer is honestly positive, then the following tips are compiled to make a lasting and loving relationship out of long distance. The following are proven but it still depends on the lovers if they really have this feeling called “love”.
Communicate
This is the very first and bestest of all so I have to put it first. A call 2-3x a day is healthy. It may sound expensive especially if there's a million miles between you but a chat online is recommended because it's free so you may chat online is and with that you may feel like happen to your day, say your true feelings, talk bout your dreams, your plans to be together. Be honest in all the things you say whether you do something that he won't like (well why would you do it anyway if you know he won't agree?) Apologize if you've done something wrong anyway, but beware of the words that come out from your mouth, he must still feel your sweet presence; tell him how much you love him. Don't lose your romantic bone, and also if you, if you want something tell him directly. If he really loves you the he would be willing to do it. Remember that love is a give and take process.
Still Do Your Rituals
Now that he's going away, that doesn't mean you can't eat on your favorite restaurants anymore. Don't put all your memorabilia away, remember, remember he just go in a far away place. Put his picture where you can see him always. (I put mine on my bedroom beside my bed so when I wake up, he would be the first one I'm going to greet and kiss good morning) Don't be afraid to the things or places that remind you of him, it's not the end anyway and tell yourself that you, two are going to eat there again.
Stay Committed
Don't put interest if someone wants to date you. 100% of relationship that doesn't stay loyal, those who while their hubby is gone, crashed. So if you get excited if someone ask yourself, are you willing to give up “your everything” just for this guy who wants to date you? I would say no, friendship is okay but keep your heart close remember that your heart is already fully booked. Is it?
Talk About Him
Mention him with your friend so they wont forget that you're already in a relationship and doesn't need one anymore. This would avoid them to introduce you to somebody else.
Reminisce
Still missing him? Remember all your moments together: happy or not, cherish those memories. I would recommend that you write your feelings out so he would stay alive in you heart.
Why Wait?
Do something or should I say if you really love him, then go after him. Why suffer when you can be together? Never underestimate the power of love. Enough said!
