So are you looking for the woman of your dreams? The love of your life? Well if so you are in the right place, I will tell you all that I have learned about how to meet the girl for you and how to get to know her better. I will add tips and things to watch out for in this article.
Scouting:
Putting it simply you can't expect to find the girl of your dreams watching TV all day. You need to get out into the real world and start socializing. There are a few places that you are going to want to avoid while looking for a mate. These are places where you might not give or get a very good first impression. These places include bars, clubs, and other places where you might meet a person who isn't being themselves due to alcohol, drugs, or other things of that nature.
Some places which are good places to meet people are places like bowling alleys, outdoor bazaar's such as church bazaars, outdoor carnivals, community swimming pools, places that are public. Now you are not going to want to go to these places by yourself and try and talk to women. This just looks predatorish and creepy. Where ever you are look like you are having a good time and smile a lot. Women react to smiles, it sends them all kind of good messages.
Before approaching any of the prospects of your chosen point you must observe without looking to creepy. What's that you don't want to approach a girl?? Well I have a news flash for you unless you are incredibly good looking you will have to do most of the work here. Even though we are not in the old times anymore some rules still apply and one of those rules are that the man almost always makes the first move.
Some things you may want to do before trying to talk to a girl are; smile at her, and note the reaction you get. If she smiles back then you may just have a live one. If she doesn't smile back that doesn't mean she is not into you so don't give up yet. You may also want to see if she is at the place with any other guys. Even if she is not all over a guy she is with doesn't mean that she is single, and her boyfriend may not appreciate you trying to move in on his prospect.
If she smiles and she isn't with any guys then you have the green light!
The Approach:
Walk over to her slowly but not too slowly, look her in the eyes if she is looking at you but don't stare, and whatever you do do not get nervous!! This is the biggest downfall of guy who are trying to meet girls. They get to nervous and end up tripping on the way over or even worse yet they will get close then chicken out and walk right pass the girl, trying to make it look like they were walking over for a different reason. Tripping is not that bad, if she finds you cute then tripping will probably make her laugh a little bit and even might make her find you more attractive.
When you finally make your way over to her simply say “Hi!” it is a good idea to introduce yourself with your name and ask for hers. Next before you say anything else tell her this “I saw you from over there and I noticed how beautiful you are”, “I was wondering if you would like to hang out sometime” then offer her your phone number. That is it, say “Have a fun day” or something along those lines and walk away.
If she is interested she will give you a call, if not you did not waste too much time walking over and giving her your number. What is important about this is that you only use this technique once at a given location per day. If she sees you doing the same thing with another girl she will be automatically turned off and not call you.
Picking a First Date:
So she called you? Good job! Now the first date may be one of the most daunting things you may ever have to do in you life!! Just kidding they really aren't that bad. Jut follow these steps and you will be fine.
When deciding where to go on the first date suggest somewhere in public and fun. Do Not, I repeat Do Not suggest a dinner and a movie!! This is a bad idea especially if you are shy. The dinner forces you to be interesting and exciting to keep her not bored with you. The movie if you just met can get extremely awkward. Suggest somewhere where you can talk and get to know each other better. Maybe a Zoo or a walk through a park or something along those lines. The entertainment will already be provided for you so you won't have to strain yourself and risk saying something stupid trying to entertain her. Trust me you have to keep her entertained, especially on the first date. This is essential.
On the Date:
You must stay calm on the date. Start conversations, ask about her life, find out what interests her, what kind of movies she is into, anything you can think of. Just keep the conversation flowing. Don't go over bored with the questions though. This is only the first date so be careful about her privacy. Don't ask her questions about what her address is and how many people she has been intimate with. Talk about yourself highlight your achievements. If you are doing good at work and got a promotion recently then mention it, but never lie! Women can sniff out lies better than a golden retriever sniffs out lunch meat on the floor!! Stay completely and 100% truthful throughout the entire night.
End of the Night:
Don't try and kiss her on the lips, but kiss her on the hand, or forehead. If she pulls away before you get to plant a gentle kiss then either she doesn't feel the date went as good as she thought it was going to. Or maybe she is just playing hard to get. If you think she is playing hard to get then ask her for her phone number tell her you had a good time and tell her to have a good night, then leave. Always try and keep her guessing at the end of the night this will let you know better where she stands on your relationship.
Well Hopefully this little guide will help you through the first week of your relationship, I will be publishing a part 2 to this article which will help you to get through the rest of your relationship with the girl. I hope you enjoyed!!
